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Т ' +JJJJ ?\>m0M='+l> /+l   d']6@5L&]655]6L:5 & "L}"BB5L&]66           MY BOYFRIEND CANNOT MAINTAIN ANERECTION WHEN WE HAVE INTERCOURSE,SO WE HAVE TO SATISFY EACH OTHER INDIFFERENT WAYS. HE ALSO SLEEPS WITHOTHER WOMEN. HE CAN MAINTAIN ANERECTION WITH ANOTHER WOMAN BUT NOTWITH ME. WHAT DO I DO?YOU SHOULD BOTH AGREE TO AN OPENRELATIONSHIP TO TAKE THE STRAIN OFFHIM.YOUR VAGINA IS PROBABLY TOO TIGHTAND NEEDS TO BE STRETCHED.HE SHOULD SEE A THERAPIST.MEANWHILE, YOU TELL HIM NOT TO SLEEPWITH THOSE OTHER WOMEN.BOTH OF YOU ABSTAIN FROM SEX FOR AMONTH AND TRY IT AGAIN.CMY SEXUAL DESIRE SEEMS TO BE OUT OFSTEP WITH MY BOYFRIEND'S. HE WANTSTO MAKE LOVE A LOT, AND I'M JUST NOTTHAT INTERESTED. I FINALLY TOLD HIMTHE WAY I FEEL AND NOW HE'S VERYUPSET. WHAT SHOULD I DO?FANTASIZE ABOUT ANOTHER SEXUALPARTNER WHEN HE TOUCHES YOU.FORCE YOURSELF TO HAVE SEX WITH HIMEVEN IF YOU DON'T WANT TO.HAND HIM A VIBRATOR AND TELL HIM TOSATISFY HIMSELF.PLEASURE HIM WHEN HE IS FEELINGAMOROUS, BUT YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVEINTERCOURSE TO DO SO.DI AM A 19-YEAR OLD WOMAN ATTENDINGCOLLEGE IN UPSTATE NEW YORK, AND ITHINK I'M GAY. MY ROOMMATE, WHO ISOPENLY LESBIAN, AND I HAVE BEEN INLOVE FOR SEVERAL MONTHS, AND SHEWANTS TO HAVE SEX. WHAT SHOULD IDO?"COME OUT OF THE CLOSET" BEFORE YOUSTART A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP SO YOUAND YOUR LOVER ARE ON AN EQUALFOOTING.IF YOU HAVE NOT HAD A SEXUALEXPERIENCE WITH A MAN, YOU MIGHTCONSIDER ONE. YOU MAY JUST BEINFATUATED WITH THE OTHER WOMEN.GET YOUR OWN ROOM NEXT SEMESTERBEFORE A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP BEGINS.OTHERWISE, EVEN IF IT DOESN'T WORKOUT, YOU'D STILL HAVE TO LIVETOGETHER.YOU SHOULD BOTH GO TO COUNSELINGSERVICES ON CAMPUS TO GET ANOBJECTIVE OPINION.CI AM 20 YEARS OLD AND MY GIRL FRIENDIS 16. SHE TOLD ME THAT SEX BELONGSONLY WITHIN MARRIAGE, AND SHE WANTSTO BE A VIRGIN WHEN SHE MARRIES. WEHAVE SPOKEN OF GETTING MARRIED WHENSHE IS OLDER, BUT HOW DO I GET RIDOF MY FRUSTRATIONS NOW?CONTINUE THE RELATIONSHIP ANDMASTURBATE TO RELIEVE THE SEXUALTENSION.FIND A PROSTITUTE TO HELP YOURELIEVE YOUR FRUSTRATIONS.KEEP AFTER HER TO HAVE SEX UNTIL SHEGIVES IN.DUMP HER AND FIND A MORE WILLINGPARTNER.AI STARTED HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH MYFRIEND'S 39-YEAR-OLD MOTHER. I AM 18,AND SHE SEDUCES ME EVERY CHANCE SHEGETS. I'M TROUBLED, BUT I CAN'T RESIST.WHAT DO I DO?TELL YOUR PARENTS AND HAVE THEMTALK WITH YOUR FRIEND'S MOTHER.STOP SEEING HER IF YOU WANT YOURFRIENDSHIP TO CONTINUE. IF SHE PERSISTS,TELL HER TO CUT IT OUT.CONFIDE IN YOUR FRIEND AND EXPLAINYOUR PROBLEM. HAVE HIM TALK TO HISMOTHER ABOUT IT.TELL HER TO STOP IT NOW. IF SHEPERSISTS, TELL HER THAT YOU WILL TELLEVERYONE IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD.BI CAN'T WAIT TO SEE MY GIRLFRIENDAT THE END OF THE WORK DAY.HOWEVER, WHEN WE GET BACK TO HERAPARTMENT, HER ROOMMATE IS ALWAYSTHERE. WE FEEL TOO INHIBITED BY HERPRESENCE TO MAKE LOVE. I FEEL TOOTIRED TO TAKE HER TO HER APARTMENTAFTER WORK AND THEN BRING HER OVERTO MY APARTMENT FOR SEX. WHAT DO WEDO?BANISH THE ROOMMATE FROM THEAPARTMENT FOR A FEW HOURS.HAVE YOUR GIRLFRIEND MEET YOU ATYOUR APARTMENT.ASK THE ROOMMATE TO JOIN YOU INLOVEMAKING. SHE WILL PROBABLY WANTTO LEAVE.FIND A DARK SPOT AND USE THE BACKSEAT OF YOUR CAR.BMY GIRLFRIEND AND I DO NOT BELIEVEIN PRE-MARITAL SEX, BUT WE TRY TOPLEASE EACH OTHER ANYWAY. I HAVE NOTROUBLE EJACULATING WHEN SHE USESHER HANDS OR MOUTH ON ME, BUT, TRYAS I MAY, SHE DOES NOT ORGASM. IT'S NOTFROM LACK OF TRYING, EITHER. SHE JUSTDOESN'T SEEM TO RESPOND, AND HERMIND IS MILES AWAY WHEN I TOUCH HER.WHAT DO I DO?YOU'RE NOT TRYING HARD ENOUGH.KEEP TRYING UNTIL YOU BRING HER TOORGASM.SHE OBVIOUSLY DOESN'T LOVE YOU ANDRESENTS YOUR TOUCHING HER.EXPLAIN TO HER THAT HER BELIEF THATPRE-MARITAL SEX IS WRONG CARRIESOVER TO HER LOVEMAKING, SO SHECANNOT ENJOY YOUR TOUCH.SHE MAY HAVE PHYSICAL PROBLEMS ANDSHOULD SEE A DOCTOR IMMEDIATELY.CI WAS DATING THIS GUY FOR TWO YEARSAND WE WERE VERY CLOSE. THEN I FOUNDOUT HE WAS SEEING OTHER WOMEN. WHENI TOLD HIM I KNEW ABOUT THE OTHERWOMEN, HE STRUCK ME. WE BROKE UPFOR AWHILE, BUT NOW WE'RE SEEINGEACH OTHER OCCASIONALLY. IS THISWISE ON MY PART?NO. FORGET HIM AND FIND SOMEONEWHO WILL LOVE AND RESPECT YOU.YES. GET MARRIED QUICKLY WHILE HESTILL FEELS GUILTY OVER WHATHAPPENED.NO. BUT HIT HIM IN RETURN, AND IF HEDOESN'T MIND YOU MAY BE ABLE TOCONTINUE YOUR RELATIONSHIP.YES. BUT CONTINUE SEEING OTHER MENWITHOUT TELLING HIM, IN CASE THINGSDON'T WORK OUT.AI HAVE HERPES AND I'M SINGLE. SINCECONTRACTING IT, I'VE BEEN NERVOUSABOUT GOING OUT WITH MEN. I NEVERKNOW WHEN OR IF I SHOULD TELL MYDATES I HAVE THE DISEASE. I THINKTHAT IF I TELL THEM, THEY'LL STOPBEING INTERESTED IN ME. THE WHOLEISSUE IS DRIVING ME A LITTLE CRAZY.DECIDE YOU WILL TELL ONLY THOSEDATES YOU FEEL YOU MIGHT BE INTIMATEWITH - AFTER YOU KNOW THAT YOU CANTRUST THEM.MAKE A LITTLE CARD THAT SAYS, " IHAVE A SURPRISE FOR YOU." THEN BEHONEST. MEN ENJOY WOMEN WITH A SENSEOF HUMOR.AS LONG AS YOU DO NOT HAVE THESORES ASSOCIATED WITH HERPES, YOU ARESAFE TO HAVE SEX.TELL YOUR DATES THE TRUTH WHEN YOUFIRST MEET THEM. IF THEY DON'T STICKAROUND, THEN YOU KNOW THEY ARE NOTWORTH YOUR TIME.AAFTER I DATED THIS MAN FOR TWOYEARS, HE SUDDENLY TOLD ME HE WASLEAVING FOR THE SUMMER AND THAT HEINTENDED TO DATE OTHER WOMEN. I AMQUITE UPSET AND I WANT TO PURSUEHIM. I'M SURE I CAN CONVINCE HIM TODATE ME AGAIN. IS THIS THE RIGHTTHING TO DO?YES. KEEP AFTER HIM. FAINT HEARTNEVER WON A FAIR GENTLEMAN.NO. DECIDE THERE ARE OTHER MEN OUTTHERE WHO WILL LOVE YOU 100% WITHOUTCOAXING ON YOUR PART.YES. FIND OUT WHAT HE DOESN'T LIKEIN YOU AND TRY TO CHANGE FOR HIM.NO. GO TO A THERAPIST BECAUSE YOUHAVE MASOCHISTIC TENDENCIES.BSOMETIMES WHEN MY WIFE AND I BEGINMAKING LOVE, SHE IS QUITE AROUSED,BUT AS WE TRY TO BEGIN INTERCOURSE,SHE CANNOT LUBRICATE ADEQUATELY.WHEN THIS HAPPENS MY WIFE USUALLYPERFORMS ORAL SEX ON ME. IN 10 OR 20MINUTES, SHE BECOMES THOROUGHLYLUBRICATED AND IS STILL AROUSED. ISTHERE ANYTHING WE CAN DO?CALL A 10-MINUTE TIME-OUT DURINGLOVEMAKING TO ALLOW YOUR BODIES TOCATCH UP WITH YOUR MINDS.YOUR WIFE SEEMS TO FEEL GUILTY ABOUTINTERCOURSE UNTIL, SHE DOES SOMETHING"DIRTY" FIRST. SEE A MARRIAGECOUNSELOR FOR HELP.DO NOT LET HER PERFORM ORAL SEXNEXT TIME. KEEP HAVING INTERCOURSE. SHEWILL BEGIN TO LUBRICATE SOONER ORLATER.TRY EXTENDING FOREPLAY ANOTHER 10OR 20 MINUTES BECAUSE YOUR WIFE NEEDSTHAT TIME TO LUBRICATE FULLY.DI'VE BEEN ATTRACTED TO THIS WOMANFOR SIX MONTHS, BUT I DON'T KNOW IFSHE'S INTERESTED IN ME. SHE TALKS TOME THE SAME WAY SHE TALKS TO THEOTHER MEN IN HER OFFICE. WHAT SHOULDI DO?TRY TO GET A JOB IN THE SAME OFFICESO YOU CAN BE NEAR HER EVERY DAY.FORGET HER, SINCE SHE DOESN'T SEEMTO LIKE YOU VERY MUCH.FIND OUT WHAT SHE LIKES TO DO ANDASK HER OUT ON A DATE TO GO TO ASPECIFIC PLACE.WRITE HER ANONYMOUS LOVE LETTERSAND PINE OVER HER WHEN SHE SEES YOU.SHE'LL GET THE POINT.CI'M 73 AND HAVE BEEN SEEING AWOMAN MY AGE. WE'RE BOTH WIDOWED.WE'VE JUST BEGUN A RELATIONSHIP, ANDI FEEL GUILTY ABOUT OUR LOVEMAKING.WE HAVE SEX THREE TIMES A WEEK. AREWE DOING THE RIGHT THING?YOU'RE BOTH CONSENTING ADULTS ANDSHOULD CONTINUE YOUR RELATIONSHIP IFIT BRINGS YOU PLEASURE.STOP IT IMMEDIATELY. SEX AT THAT AGEIS DANGEROUS.ASK YOUR CHILDREN WHAT THEY THINKAND ABIDE BY THEIR DECISION.THE GUILT YOU FEEL ABOUT FORGETTINGYOUR FORMER SPOUSES WILL CONTINUE TOINTERFERE WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP.AI HAVE BEEN USING A DIAPHRAGM ANDJELLY FOR CONTRACEPTION, BUT MYBOYFRIEND STILL "PULLS OUT" BEFOREEJACULATING. HE SAYS HE DOESN'TTRUST THE DIAPHRAGM AND WORRIESABOUT ME GETTING PREGNANT. I HAVEBEEN FEELING FRUSTRATED, AND NOWWE'RE BEGINNING TO FIGHT. WHAT DOWE DO?WRAP YOUR LEGS TIGHTLY AROUND HIMSO HE CAN'T PULL OUT.GO FOR COUNSELING ABOUTCONTRACEPTION AND TALK OUT YOURFEELINGS ABOUT SEX AND PREGNANCY.ONLY HAVE ORAL SEX UNTIL YOU DECIDEIT'S TIME FOR A FAMILY.DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM UNTIL HEAGREES HE'S BEING RIDICULOUS.BMY BOYFRIEND AND I HAD BEEN DOINGWELL AND ENJOYING SEX UNTIL ONE DAYI COAXED HIM UP TO MY ROOM FOR SEX.MY FATHER WALKED IN ON US. THEY WEREBOTH UPSET BY THE INCIDENT, AND NOWMY BOYFRIEND SAYS I DON'T TURN HIMON ANYMORE. WHAT SHOULD I DO?YOUR BOYFRIEND FEELS DEEP GUILT.BOTH OF YOU SHOULD GO SEE APRE-MARRIAGE COUNSELOR FOR ADVICE.SUCH REMARKS OFTEN MEAN SOMEONEIS ANGRY. FIND OUT WHAT YOUR BOYFRIENDIS FEELING AND SEE IF YOU CAN MENDTHE RELATIONSHIP.YOUR BOYFRIEND IS JUST BEINGCAREFUL. REMEMBER THE OLD SAYING"ONCE BURNED, TWICE SHY." HE WILLSNAP OUT OF IT SOON.YOU SHOULD CONSIDER MOVING OUT OFTOWN ON YOUR OWN WHERE SUCH AWKWARDACCIDENTAL DISCOVERIES CANNOTHAPPEN.BI WANT TO BREAK UP WITH A MAN I'VEBEEN SEEING FOR A FEW MONTHS. WE'REFROM DIFFERENT BACKGROUNDS.I'M AFRAID HE'LL THINK I'M LEAVINGHIM BECAUSE OF HIS PARENTS. WHAT SHOULD I DO?JUST STOP SEEING HIM. DON'T SAYANYTHING TO HIM.CONTINUE TO SEE HIM UNTIL HE WANTSTO BREAK UP, SO YOU DON'T HURT HISFEELINGS.TELL HIS MOTHER YOU'RE A LOUSY COOKAND LET HER SUGGEST THAT YOU TWOSHOULD BREAK UP.EXPLAIN THAT YOU DON'T HAVE THESAME FEELING FOR HIM AS YOU DID AT THEBEGINNING. YOUR BACKGROUNDS HAVENOTHING TO DO WITH IT.DMY WIFE HAS ENORMOUS BREASTS, BUTSHE IS AWFULLY FUSSY AND PROPRIETARYABOUT THEM. I HAVE DIFFICULTY GETTINGHER TO SIT ON MY LAP SO THAT I CANSUCK ON HER NIPPLES FERVENTLY LIKE AHUNGRY CHILD. I REALLY ENJOY THIS. WHAT SHOULD I DO?SINCE THEY ARE HER BREASTS, YOU HAVETO RESPECT HER PREFERENCES ABOUTTHEM, BUT TELL HER HOW MUCH YOUENJOY WHAT YOU DO.HER BREASTS ARE PROBABLY SOSENSITIVE THAT SUCH FERVENTATTENTION TO THEM IS EXTREMELYPAINFUL.MANY WOMEN WITH LARGE BREASTSARE SENSITIVE TO THEIR SIZE AND DO NOTLIKE ATTENTION DRAWN TO THEM. TRYSOMETHING ELSE.WHIMPER LIKE A HUNGRY CHILD TODRAW OUT THE NURTURING MOTHER IN HER.SHE'S BOUND TO COMPLY.AA FEW MONTHS AGO I WAS STANDING ATMY WINDOW AND I NOTICED TWO COLLEGEGIRLS ACROSS THE STREET WALKINGAROUND THEIR APARTMENT COMPLETELYNUDE. NOW I'M DRAWN TO THE WINDOWOVER AND OVER, AND THEY ARECONSTANTLY DANCING AND LOLLINGAROUND NAKED. WHAT DO I DO?THE ANSWER IS CLEAR: USE SOME SELF-CONTROL AND STOP WATCHING THEM.THEY MAY NOT REALIZE THEY CAN BESEEN. SEND THEM A NOTE ASKING THEMTO DRAW THE BLINDS.EXHIBITIONISM IS COMMON AND PEOPLEWHO PARADE NUDE IN FRONT OF OPENWINDOWS ARE INVITING YOU TO WATCH.ENJOY YOURSELF.TRY TO INTRODUCE YOURSELF TO ONE OFTHEM. MENTION WHAT YOU'VE SEEN ANDDECIDE WHAT TO DO NEXT ONCE YOUTALK TO THEM.AI LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND, AND EVERYONESAYS WE'RE A WONDERFUL COUPLE.HOWEVER, SHE HAS NEVER HAD ANORGASM. I BLAME MYSELF, AND NOW IDON'T ENJOY SEX AS MUCH BECAUSE IWORRY ABOUT DOING A BAD JOB. WHAT DO I DO?ENCOURAGE HER TO SLEEP WITH OTHERMEN UNTIL SHE HAS AN ORGASM.SHE SHOULD LEARN TO GIVE HERSELFORGASMS AND THEN TEACH YOU THE BESTWAY TO PLEASURE HER.YOU SHOULD EXPERIMENT WITH OTHERWOMEN TO LEARN HOW TO BRING YOURGIRLFRIEND TO ORGASM.IGNORE THE PROBLEM. EVENTUALLYSHE'LL HAVE AN ORGASM.BI'VE HAD A WONDERFUL SEXUALRELATIONSHIP WITH A MAN FOR A YEARNOW. ONE NIGHT HE ASKED ME TOMASTURBATE IN FRONT OF HIM BECAUSEHE OFTEN FANTASIZED ABOUT IT.I REFUSED AND HE BECAME UPSET. WAS IRIGHT?ONLY BRING TO LIFE THE FANTASIES OFHIS THAT YOU FEEL COMFORTABLEFULFILLING.BOTH OF YOU MASTURBATE AT THE SAMETIME, AND YOU WON'T FEELUNCOMFORTABLE.TELL HIM HE HAS THE MAKINGS OF APEEPING TOM, AND THAT SHOULD COOLHIM OFF.TELL HIM YOU'LL DO IT, BUT ONLY WITHTHE LIGHTS OFF.AI MET THIS FASHION PHOTOGRAPHERLAST WEEK. HE CALLED ME AND SAID IWAS BEAUTIFUL, AND HE ASKED ME IF IWOULD POSE FOR HIM IN THE NUDE. ISAID NO, BUT NOW I WONDER IF I DIDTHE RIGHT THING.HE WAS ONLY TRYING TO TELL YOU HEWANTED TO FORM A RELATIONSHIP WITHYOU.CALL HIM UP AND TELL HIM YOU WILLMODEL IN CLOTHES, BUT YOU MAYCHANGE YOUR MIND LATER.THERE ARE SLEAZY PHOTOGRAPHERS OUTTHERE WHO MAY SELL THOSE PHOTOS TOMEN'S MAGAZINES AFTER TRICKING YOUINTO GIVING LEGAL PERMISSION.THAT IS ONE OF THE OLDEST LINES AMAN USES ON A WOMAN, MUCH LIKEASKING YOU UP TO SEE HIS ETCHINGS.CMY BABY SISTER HAS BEEN READING ALOT OF STRANGE NOVELS TO ME.SOMETIMES I THINK SHE'S TRYING TOGET ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HER. WHATDO I DO?TO SCARE HER, COME ON TO HERSTRONGLY AND SAY THAT THE NOVELSHAVE REALLY TURNED YOU ON.GO TO YOUR PARENTS, A RELIGIOUSCOUNSELOR OR SCHOOL COUNSELOR TOEXPLAIN WHAT IS HAPPENING.TELL HER TO CUT IT OUT IMMEDIATELYIF SHE MAKES ANY SEXUAL ADVANCES ATALL.MENTION IT KIDDINGLY WHEN YOU AREWITH HER IN A GROUP OF ADULTS.CI'M GOING TO BOSTON SOON FOR THEMARATHON, AND I WILL BE STAYINGWITH A BEAUTIFUL, SOMETIME LOVER OFMINE. I DON'T IMAGINE THAT WE WILLMAKE LOVE EVERY NIGHT, BUT I DOWORRY ABOUT DOING WELL IN THE RACE.WILL SEX AFFECT MY PERFORMANCE?IT IS SAFE TO HAVE SEX UP TO THREEHOURS BEFORE YOU BEGIN A MARATHON,SO DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.IT'S BEEN FOUND THAT FOR EACHEJACULATION, YOU ADD 3-4 MINUTES TOYOUR TIME-MAINLY BECAUSE IT RELAXESYOU SO MUCH.THE BULK OF EVIDENCE BY OTHERRUNNERS IS THAT SEX WON'T AFFECTYOUR PERFORMANCE AS LONG AS IT'SNOT A VERY LONG, LATE SESSION.YOUR FEARS THAT SEX COULD INTERFEREWILL AFFECT YOUR RUNNING. STAYSOMEWHERE ELSE UNTIL AFTER THERACE.CMY BOYFRIEND TELLS ME THAT IF ILOVE HIM I WILL HAVE SEX WITH HIM.I AM NOT READY FOR INTERCOURSE, SOI COMPROMISE BY STIMULATING HIMMANUALLY. I DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLEDOING THIS, BUT I DON'T WANT TOLOSE HIM. HE IS GETTING IMPATIENTWITH THIS AND WANTS THE "REALTHING". WHAT DO I DO?END THE RELATIONSHIP. ANYONE WHOFORCES YOU TO HAVE SEX DOES NOTLOVE YOU AND DOES NOT DESERVE YOURLOVE.IF IT DOES NOT BOTHER YOU, TRY TOLEARN ORAL SEX AS ANOTHER WAY OFPLEASING HIM WITHOUT INTERCOURSE.EXPLAIN TO HIM THAT YOU BELIEVEINTERCOURSE IS PROPER ONLY WITHINMARRIAGE AND THAT HE MUST ACCEPTMANUAL STIMULATION AND MASTURBATEUNTIL THEN.STOP ALL SEX. IF HE LOVES YOU, HEWON'T OBJECT.AI'VE HAD A VAGINAL INFECTION FORSIX MONTHS DESPITE VISITING TWODOCTORS AND TAKING MEDICINE. ITMAKES SEX VERY PAINFUL, AND MY SEXLIFE IS AT A STANDSTILL. I'M AFAIDMY HUSBAND WILL START LOOKINGELSEWHERE FOR SEXUAL SATISFACTION.WHAT DO I DO?HAVE SEX ANYWAY. BE STOIC ABOUT THEPAIN.ABSTAIN FROM SEX UNTIL THEINFECTION CLEARS UP. SATISFY YOURHUSBAND MANUALLY OR ORALLY IN THEMEANTIME.TAKE MASSIVE DOSES OF PAIN KILLERSAND CONTINUE TO HAVE SEX.THE PAIN IS IN YOUR HEAD. DON'TTHINK ABOUT IT AND IT WILL GO AWAY.BI HAVE A DISABILITY THAT KEEPS MEIN A WHEELCHAIR. ALTHOUGH I AMPHYSICALLY HANDICAPPED, MY MENTALABILITIES ARE NORMAL. I LONG FOR ARELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMEN, BUT I AMSELF-CONSCIOUS AND DON'T KNOW HOWTO BEGIN A RELATIONSHIP. CAN YOUHELP?YOU HAVE A DIFFICULT SITUATION.KEEP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND TAKERISKS IN TRYING TO START ARELATIONSHIP.YOU HAVE ALMOST NO HOPE FORROMANCE, SO CONCENTRATE ON OTHERTHINGS.CONSIDER AN OPERATION THAT WILLREDUCE OR ELIMINATE YOUR SEX DRIVE.MANY WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TOHELPLESS MEN. KEEP LOOKING AROUND.AI HAVE A POWERFUL SEX DRIVE AND IMASTURBATE AT LEAST ONCE A DAY. ITSEEMS MY TESTICLES SWELL A BIT FROMALL MY MASTURBATING. MY REALDIFFICULTY IS THAT I BECOME IMPOTENTWITH WOMEN WHEN THE TIME ARRIVESFOR INTERCOURSE. IS THERE SOMECONNECTION?SO MUCH MASTURBATING CAN MAKEYOUR TESTICLES TENDER AND MAKE THEMTEMPORARILY IMPOTENT.TESTICLES DO NOT SWELL FROMMASTURBATING. YOUR PROBLEM IS MOREPSYCHOLOGICAL THAN PHYSICAL.YOU ARE AFRAID OF WOMEN AND SO YOUMASTURBATE INSTEAD. YOU FEELASHAMED OF THIS AND SO YOU THINKYOUR TESTICLES ARE SWELLING.MASTURBATING EVERY DAY IS OKAYAND WON'T AFFECT SEX. YOU ARE JUSTNERVOUS ABOUT SEX.BI HAD A CHILD OUT OF WEDLOCK. ATFIRST, THE FATHER REFUSED TO HAVEANYTHING TO DO WITH ME AND MY BABY,BUT NOW HE TELLS MY FRIENDS HEWANTS TO COME BACK INTO OUR LIVES.BUT EVERY TIME HE AGREES TO SEE US,HE FAILS TO SHOW UP. SHOULD I TRYTO GET TOGETHER WITH HIM AGAIN?FORGET HIM. HIS ACTIONS ARESPEAKING LOUDER THAN HIS WORDS.SINCE YOU WILL PROBABLY HAVETROUBLE FINDING A HUSBAND, KEEPAFTER HIM.GIVE HIM TIME. HE IS STILL CONFUSEDAND NEEDS TO CONSIDER THE SITUATION.TELL HIM YOU ARE MOVING AWAY ANDTHAT HE HAS ONE LAST CHANCE TO SEETHE BOTH OF YOU.AWHEN MY BOYFRIEND AND I MAKE LOVE,HE EJACULATES AS SOON AS WE STARTTO HAVE INTERCOURSE. AT FIRST HEWAS EMBARRASSED ABOUT IT, BUT NOWHE BLAMES ME. HE SAYS I'M TOOAGGRESSIVE AND HE GETSOVERSTIMULATED. I'M GETTING ANGRYAT HIM NOW AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TODO.TELL HIM TO LEAVE. IF HE CANNOTLOVE AN AGGRESSIVE WOMAN, HE'S NOTWORTH YOUR TIME.LIE STILL IN BED DURINGINTERCOURSE. DON'T EXCITE HIM.TEACH HIM ABOUT PREMATUREEJACULATION AND VISIT A SEXTHERAPIST WITH HIM.TIE A RUBBER BAND TIGHTLY AROUNDTHE HEAD OF HIS PENIS UNTIL HELEARNS TO CONTROL HIMSELF.CI HAVE A GOOD FRIEND WHOM I'VE HNOWNFOR YEARS. WE'VE BEEN THROUGH THICKAND THIN. ALTHOUGH OUR RELATIONSHIPHAS BEEN LIKE BROTHER AND SISTER, IRECENTLY REALIZED THAT I LOVE HER.SHE SAYS SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GETINVOLVED WITH ME BECAUSE IT MIGHTRUIN OUR FRIENDSHIP. HOW CAN ICONVINCE HER TO GO OUT WITH ME?TELL HER "FORGET BROTHER ANDSISTER. I'M TALKING MAN AND WIFE."THAT SHOULD MAKE HER SEE THE LIGHT.IF SHE GOES OUT WITH OTHER MEN,FOLLOW THEM AND SAY TO THE MEN THATYOU ARE HER BROTHER.TELL HER "INCEST IS BEST." AFTERYOU HAVE SEX, SHE'LL FORGET ABOUTWANTING TO BE JUST FRIENDS.SHE HAS MADE HER FEELINGS CLEAR.TRY TO REMAIN FRIENDS AND HOPE THATSHE WILL CHANGE HER MIND.DI AM IN MY EARLY 20S AND HAVENEVER HAD A RELATIONSHIP WITH AWOMAN - EITHER SEXUAL OR INTIMATE.THIS FEAR OF RELATIONSHIPS HAS MADEME VERY LONELY. RECENTLY, I HAVEDARED TO ASK WOMEN OUT, BUT BECAUSEI'M A VIRGIN, I FREEZE UP AT THETHOUGHT OF SEX. WHAT SHOULD I DO?ASK FOR A SEXUAL SURROGATE AT A SEXTHERAPY CLINIC TO TEACH YOU HOW TOHAVE SEX.BUILD A RELATIONSHIP FIRST. DON'TWORRY ABOUT SEX UNTIL YOU FEELCOMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO CONFIDE YOURFEARS.READ ALL THE SEX MANUALS YOU CANUNTIL YOU KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUTSEX.THE PROBLEM IS IN YOUR MIND. ITWILL DISAPPEAR THE FIRST TIME YOUMAKE LOVE TO A WOMAN.BTHE OTHER NIGHT MY BOYFRIEND SAIDHE WOULD GET A TREMENDOUS SEXUALTHRILL BY GIVING ME A "GOLDENSHOWER" - URINATING ON ME. ITHOUGHT ABOUT IT BUT REJECTED THEIDEA SINCE IT DISGUSTS ME. HE KEEPSASKING ME ONCE IN A WHILE AND HINTSI AM SOME SORT OF PRUDE. AM I?TELL HIM NO, AND IF HE DARES TRY,YOU WILL MAKE SURE THAT WILL BE THELAST TIME HE USES HIS PENIS.KEEP AN UMBRELLA BY THE BED IN CASEHE DECIDES TO SURPRISE YOU.TELL HIM NO, THE CASE IS CLOSED.STICK WITH YOUR INSTINCTS NOT TO DOSOMETHING THAT DISGUSTS YOU.TELL HIM YOU WILL ALLOW IT ONLY IFHE LETS YOU RETURN THE FAVOR.CSINCE WE SET A WEDDING DATE, MYFIANCE OF SEVEN YEARS HAS STARTEDACTING DIFFERENTLY. WE'VE ALREADYLIVED TOGETHER FOR TWO YEARS. HESEEMS PREOCCUPIED WITH MONEY, BUTWE BOTH HAVE GOOD JOBS AND DON'THAVE TO WORRY ABOUT FINANCES. OURSEX LIFE HAS DETERIORATED, AND NOWHE EJACULATES PREMATURELY ANDDOESN'T SEEM TO ENJOY SEX. IS THISAN INDICATION OF WHAT OUR MARRIEDLIFE WILL BE LIKE?DON'T WORRY. IT'S NORMAL FOR A MANTO ACT IRRATIONAL JUST BEFORE MARRIAGE.MARRIAGE BRINGS OUT A MAN'S TRUE NATURE. GET OUT NOW WHILE YOU CAN.HE'S GIVING A SIGNAL THAT HEDOESN'T WANT TO MARRY YOU, SO ACTACCORDINGLY.HAVE A LONG TALK ABOUT HISEXPECTATION OF MARRIAGE AND ABOUTTHE CHANGES YOU'VE NOTICED IN HIM.DAFTER LIVING TOGETHER AND HAVINGA GREAT SEX LIFE, WE RECENTLYMARRIED. BEFORE MARRIAGE WE WEREOPEN AND INTO EXPERIMENTING WITHNEW POSITIONS AND TECHNIQUES. NOWTHAT WE'RE MARRIED, SHE'S CHANGED.SHE REFUSES TO GET UNDRESSED IF IAM IN THE ROOM AND SHE RARELY LETSME SEE HER NUDE. SHE WON'T LET MEPERFORM ORAL SEX ON HER NOW EITHER.WHAT'S GOING ON?THERE'S A MARRIAGE SCRIPT PLAYINGIN YOUR WIFE'S HEAD ABOUT THE WAYONE ACTS TOWARDS A HUSBAND.NOW THAT YOU ARE MARRIED, YOURWIFE'S FEELINGS OF GUILT ABOUT SEXBEFORE MARRIAGE ARE BEGINNING TOSHOW.CONSIDER THAT HER OPEN SEXUALITYBEFORE MARRIAGE WAS SIMPLY A RUSETO GET YOU TO MARRY HER.MARRIED LIFE HAS NOT PROVEN ASWONDERFUL AS SHE EXPECTED, AND NOWSHE IS TRYING TO PUNISH YOU.AMY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIEDFOR 10 YEARS AND WE HAVE TWO YOUNGCHILDREN. SINCE MY LITTLE ONE IS INKINDERGARTEN, I WANT A PART-TIMEJOB. MY HUSBAND IS TOTALLY AGAINSTTHIS AND WON'T LET ME GET A JOB. IFEEL EMPTY SITTING AT HOME, WAITINGFOR MY KIDS AND MY HUSBAND TO COMEHOME. WHAT CAN I DO TO CHANGE HISMIND?GO ON STRIKE. REFUSE TO TAKE CAREOF THE CHILDREN OR DO ANY HOUSEHOLDCHORES UNTIL HE CHANGES HIS MIND.FORGET THE JOB. IT WILL ONLY CAUSEHAVOC IN YOUR FAMILY.COMPROMISE. TELL HIM YOU'LL TAKETHE JOB ON A TRIAL BASIS ANDEVALUATE THE SITUATION AFTER A FEWMONTHS.TELL HIM, "I EITHER TAKE THIS JOB,OR I TAKE THE KIDS AND MOVE HOMETO MY MOTHER."CWE HAVE BEEN HAVING TERRIBLEARGUMENTS ABOUT SEX RECENTLY. MYHUSBAND SAYS THAT I DO NOT SATISFYHIM AND THAT HE HAS BEEN UNHAPPYFOR YEARS. ALTHOUGH HE COMPLAINS,HE WON'T LET ME SATISFY HIM. ONCEHE DECIDES HE'S AROUSED, WE HAVESEX FOR THREE MINUTES AND IT ISOVER. IF I TRY TO TALK ABOUT IT, HECALLS ME UPTIGHT AND FRIGID. PLEASEHELP.YOU ARE IN A NO-WIN SITUATION.CONSIDER DIVORCE.THREATEN TO WITHHOLD SEX FROM HIMUNTIL HE IS READY TO TALK.THERE IS A BREAKDOWN OFCOMMUNICATION BETWEEN YOU. AMARRIAGE COUNSELOR SHOULD HELP.KEEP TALKING TO HIM EVEN IF HEWON'T LISTEN. TELL HIM HE'S THE ONEWHO IS UPTIGHT.CMY WIFE'S PERIOD HAS BEEN REGULARSINCE WE MARRIED FOUR YEARS AGO.THIS MONTH, IT WAS A WEEK LATE ANDVERY HEAVY. WE'RE CONCERNED THATSHE MIGHT BE PREGNANT (WE DON'TWANT CHILDREN). IS IT POSSIBLE?SHE MAY HAVE BEEN A LITTLEPREGNANT, BUT NOW SHE ISN'T.DON'T WORRY. IT'S NORMAL FOR AWOMEN TO HAVE AN UNUSUALLY HEAVYPERIOD EVERY FOUR TO FIVE YEARS.SEE A DOCTOR IMMEDIATELY. SUDDENIRREGULARITY IN PERIODS ISEXTREMELY DANGEROUS.IF YOU ARE WORRIED, THE BEST THINGTO DO IS TO GET A PREGNANCY TEST.DMY GIRLFRIEND SMOKES CIGARETTESAND SOMETIMES, WHEN WE ARE BEINGINTIMATE, HER BREATH AND THE TASTEOF HER MOUTH CAN BE A BIG TURN OFF.WHAT SHOULD I DO?TRY TO GET HER TO FOREGO SMOKINGFOR A FEW HOURS WHEN YOU EXPECT TOHAVE SEX.KEEP A BREATH MINT WITHIN REACH OFTHE BED AND POP IT INTO HER MOUTHDURING FOREPLAY.ENCOURAGE HER TO USE MOUTHWASHBEFORE YOU SETTLE DOWN FOR SEX.TELL HER THAT YOU WILL EAT GARLICIF SHE DOESN'T BRUSH HER TEETHBEFORE YOU GO TO BED FOR THE NIGHT.CI WAS A VIRGIN WHEN I MARRIED THREEMONTHS AGO. I AM DISAPPOINTED ANDFRIGHTENED TO FIND OUT THAT SEX ISNOT WHAT I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE. IEXPERIENCE TREMENDOUS VAGINAL PAINDURING INTERCOURSE. EVEN IF I FEELEXCITED, I FREEZE UP AS SOON AS ITSTARTS TO HURT. WHAT SHOULD I DO?VISIT A SEX THERAPIST FOR MUSCLERELAXANT PILLS.YOU HAVE THE "HONEYMOON JITTERS."THEY USUALLY DISAPPEAR AFTER SIXMONTHS OF DAILY INTERCOURSE.YOUR DISAPPOINTMENT ABOUT SEX ISAFFECTING YOUR MIND. KEEPEXPERIMENTING WITH SEX UNTIL YOUFEEL COMFORTABLE.CHECK WITH A GYNECOLOGIST ANDTHEN SEE A SEX THERAPIST.DI AM HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH A MAN INMY OFFICE, WHICH THE COMPANY DOESNOT ALLOW. IF THE COMPANY FINDSOUT, ONE OF US WILL BE DISMISSED(PROBABLY ME, SINCE HE HAS A HIGHERPOSITION THAN I HAVE). WE HAVECONSIDERED MARRIAGE, BUT LATELY THESTRESS OF KEEPING OUR RELATIONSHIPA SECRET IS CAUSING US TO FIGHT ALOT. WHAT DO WE DO?DON'T WORRY. THE COMPANY'S RULE ISA BLUFF AND CANNOT BE LEGALLYENFORCED.ONE OF YOU COULD START LOOKING FORANOTHER JOB.IF YOU WANT TO KEEP WORKING FORTHE COMPANY, YOU WILL HAVE TO SPLIT UP.TELL YOUR FELLOW WORKERS YOU ARESEEING SOMEONE ELSE SO NO ONE WILLSUSPECT.BI RECENTLY MARRIED AT AGE 50. IALWAYS HAD GOOD SEX WITH MYPARTNERS AND EVEN WITH MY WIFEBEFORE MARRIAGE. LATELY DURINGINTERCOURSE, AS SOON AS MY WIFESTARTS MOVING WITH ME ANDINDICATING SHE IS ENJOYING IT, ILOSE MY ERECTION. THIS DISTURBS ME.WHAT IS WRONG?TALK TO YOUR WIFE ABOUT YOURFEELINGS AND SEE IF YOU HAVE ANYHIDDEN RESENTMENTS AGAINST GIVINGHER PLEASURE.TELL YOUR WIFE NOT TO MOVE DURINGINTERCOURSE, AND NOT TO MAKE ANYNOISES. SHE IS DISTRACTING YOU.YOU MAY RESENT YOUR MARRIAGE SINCEIT HAS REMOVED THE FREEDOM OFACTION YOU WERE USED TO.YOUR WIFE IS NOT LUBRICATED ENOUGH.THE FRICTION FROM INTERCOURSE ISCAUSING YOUR ERECTION TO WILT.AMY HUSBAND HAS JUST CONFESSED TOME THAT HE HAD AN AFFAIR. TO TELL THETRUTH, I WASN'T SURPRISED; I'VEBEEN SUSPICIOUS FOR A WHILE. NOWTHAT IT'S OUT IN THE OPEN, I DON'TKNOW WHAT TO DO. I'M SO ANGRY ICAN'T LOOK AT HIM. HE SAYS HE WANTSTO MAKE THINGS RIGHT, BUT I DON'TKNOW.YOUR CHIP ON THE SHOULDER ATTITUDEMAY HAVE CAUSED HIS AFFAIR IN THEFIRST PLACE. FORGIVE AND FORGET.YOU NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP TO PULLYOUR MARRIAGE BACK TOGETHER. SEE AMARRIAGE COUNSELOR.TALK OUT YOUR ANGER AT HIM AND LETHIM APOLOGIZE PROFUSELY. ONCE YOUCLEAR THE AIR, THINGS WILL BE BETTER.TO PUNISH HIM, TELL HIM YOU ARE NOWENTITLED TO AN AFFAIR. BUT DON'TACTUALLY DO IT.BMANY TIMES WHEN I'M MAKINGLOVE TO MY WIFE, I FANTASIZE THAT I'MMAKING LOVE TO HER BEST FRIEND, WHOIS MORE ATTRACTIVE AND SEXY. ISTHIS OK?IF YOU CANNOT KEEP YOUR MIND ONYOUR WIFE, YOUR MARRIAGE IS INTROUBLE. SEE A COUNSELOR.ENJOY YOUR FANTASY AND SHARE ITWITH YOUR WIFE.THINK OF SOMETHING ELSE--SICKNESSOR INJURY--TO KEEP YOUR MIND OFFYOUR WIFE'S FRIEND.ENJOY YOUR FANTASY, BUT IT'S A GOODIDEA TO KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.DI HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MY GIRLFRIENDWHEN WE'RE IN BED. SHE ACTS LIKE ATRAFFIC COP, TELLING ME TO TOUCHHER HERE AND THERE, THIS WAY ANDTHAT. WHAT FUN IS SEX IF ALL I DOIS FOLLOW DIRECTIONS?SET A TIME TO STIMULATE EACH OTHERWITHOUT HER MAKING SUGGESTIONS, ANDYOU GIVE HER SOME GENTLE DIRECTIONS.BUY HER A POLICEMAN'S HAT AND GIVEIT TO HER IN BED. SHE'LL GET THE IDEA.TELL HER THAT SILENCE IS GOLDENDURING PASSION AND THAT LOVEMAKINGSHOULD BE UNPREDICTABLE ANDSPONTANEOUS.DO JUST THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT SHESAYS, AND IF SHE ASKS, SAY THAT ALLHER DIRECTIONS DISTRACT YOU.AI RECENTLY DISCOVERED MY BOYFRIENDLIES TO ME ALL THE TIME, ABOUT BIGAND LITTLE THINGS. MOST OF THE TIMEI DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT HE'S TRYINGTO HIDE. WE'VE TALKED ABOUT THISMANY TIMES, BUT HE CONTINUES TOLIE. I CAN'T TRUST HIM ANYMORE, BUTI STILL LOVE HIM AND DON'T WANT TOLOSE HIM.TELL HIM THAT FOR EVERY LIE YOUCATCH HIM IN, HE WILL NOT HAVE SEXTHAT NIGHT.FOLLOW HIM AROUND TO CATCH HIM INHIS LIES IN ORDER TO UNDERSTAND WHYHE IS DOING IT.HIS PROBLEM MAY BE BIGGER THAN YOUCAN HANDLE. YOU DESERVE A BOYFRIENDYOU CAN TRUST.HE IS A PATHOLOGICAL LIAR. SINCEHIS DISORDER CANNOT BE CURED, YOUWILL HAVE TO LEARN TO LIVE WITH IT.CI AM SO CONFUSED. EVERY BOY I DATEWANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH ME. I AMJUST A TEENAGER AND DON'T FEEL I'MREADY FOR SEX. BUT I'M BEGINNING TOFEEL LIKE AN ODDBALL. IS THERESOMETHING WRONG WITH ME?NO. IF THE BOYS KEEP BOTHERING YOU,GIVE THEM A PUNCH IN THEIR TESTICLESAND TELL THEM YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED.THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU,BUT IT IS UNUSUAL NOT TO HAVE SEXSOMETIME DURING YOUR TEENS.YOUR ATTITUDE IS WONDERFUL. DON'THAVE SEX UNTIL THE TIME IS RIGHTFOR YOU.THE PROBLEM IS WITH THE BOYS. MAKEYOURSELF LESS ATTRACTIVE TO KEEPTHEM AT A DISTANCE.CI HAVE A PROBLEM THAT DEEPLYEMBARRASSES ME. I BELIEVE MY PENISIS UNUSUALLY SMALL, AND I WORRYABOUT ITS SIZE ALL THE TIME. I KNOWTHERE IS NO MEDICAL PROBLEM. I'MJUST NOT WELL-ENDOWED. WHAT CAN IDO?LOOK FOR A PENIS-ENLARGEMENTTECHNIQUE. THEY ARE SAFE NOWADAYS.WHENEVER YOU MAKE LOVE, KEEPTHE LIGHTS OFF. IN THE DARK YOURPARTNER WILL NOT NOTICE THE SIZE OFYOUR PENIS.BUY AN ASSORTMENT OF DILDOS ANDKEEP THEM HANDY IN CASE YOUR LOVERMENTIONS ANYTHING.MASTURBATE IN FRONT OF A FULL-LENGTH MIRROR AND ADMIRE WHATYOU'VE GOT. IT MIGHT MAKE YOU FEELBETTER.DMY LOVER AND I HAVE BEEN SEEINGEACH OTHER FOR FIVE YEARS, AND THISIS THE MOST LOVING RELATIONSHIPI'VE EVER HAD. HE'S BEEN TELLING METHAT HE PLANS TO DIVORCE HIS WIFEWHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT. I'VE BEENHEARING THIS FOR TWO YEARS NOW.WHAT DO I DO?WAIT A LITTLE LONGER. THESE THINGSTAKE TIME.TO SPEED THINGS UP, CALL HIS WIFEAND TELL HER ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP.GIVE HIM AN ULTIMATUM: IT'S YOU ORHIS WIFE. MAKE HIM CHOOSE.END THE RELATIONSHIP. THE MAJORITYOF MARRIED MEN NEVER LEAVE THEIRWIVES FOR THEIR GIRLFRIENDS.DI'M IN TROUBLE. I'VE BEEN SLEEPINGWITH MY FIANCEE'S SISTER FOR THELAST THREE MONTHS. I DON'T KNOW WHYI DID IT OR HOW IT HAPPENED. MYGIRLFRIEND AND I ARE TO BE MARRIEDSOON, AND I AM AFRAID OF WHAT WILLHAPPEN IF SHE FINDS OUT. SHOULD ITELL HER THE TRUTH?BREAK OFF THE AFFAIR, BUT DON'TTELL YOUR FIANCEE ABOUT IT UNTILAFTER YOU'RE MARRIED.CONFESS TO YOUR FIANCEE IMMEDIATELYAND GO FOR PRE-MARRIAGE COUNSELING.THREATEN THE SISTER WITH PHYSICALVIOLENCE IF SHE SAYS A WORD TO HERSISTER.BREAK OFF THE MARRIAGE. YOUOBVIOUSLY LOVE THE SISTER MORE.BMY 17-YEAR-OLD NEPHEW IS GAY ANDIS HAVING A TERRIBLE TIME COPING. HEHAS NEVER TOLD HIS CLOSEST FRIENDSHE IS GAY, AND HIS FAMILY SITUATIONIS TERRIBLE - HE NEVER TALKS TO HISPARENTS, WHO ARE DIVORCED. I HATETO SEE HIM SO DESPONDENT. WHAT CANI DO?DO NOT INTERFERE BECAUSE THERE ISLITTLE YOU CAN DO. HE WILL HAVE TOWORK OUT HIS DIFFICULTIES HIMSELF.HE IS TOO YOUNG TO BE SURE HE ISGAY. TRY TO FIX HIM UP WITH A GIRLHIS AGE, AND HE MAY BECOMEHETEROSEXUAL.PUT HIM IN TOUCH WITH A GAYSUPPORT GROUP. THEY HAVE COUNSELORSWHO MIGHT BE ABLE TO HELP HIM.TELL HIS FRIENDS AND TRY TOCONVINCE HIS PARENTS TO HELP HIM BYSUPPORTING HIS LIFESTYLE.CI AM A 21 YEAR OLD WOMAN ANDSTILL A VIRGIN. I AM VERY SHY ANDHAVE NEVER HAD A RELATIONSHIP. MYFRIENDS TALK ABOUT THEIR BOYFRIENDS,AND I AM BEGINNING TO THINK THATI'M UNATTRACTIVE AND THAT NO ONEWILL EVER LOVE ME. WHAT SHOULD I DO?TRY GOING TO A SINGLES' BAR. IT'SONE OF THE BEST PLACES TO MEETAVAILABLE MEN.ASK ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS IF YOU CANBORROW HER BOYFRIEND.SOME PEOPLE ARE DESTINED TO BELONELY. YOU MAY HAVE TO ACCEPT THEFACT THAT YOU ARE ONE OF THEM.TRY FIRST HAVING FRIENDS WHO AREBOYS INSTEAD OF STRIVING FORBOYFRIENDS.DMY HUSBAND IS VERY FAMILY-ORIENTED, WHICH IS ONE OF THEREASONS I MARRIED HIM. HOWEVER,EVERY NIGHT AFTER WORK HE STOPS BYHIS MOTHER'S HOUSE, AND ON THEWEEKENDS HE WANTS TO SPEND HIS TIMEWITH HIS MOTHER AND BROTHERS ANDSISTERS. I FEEL HE CARES MORE FORTHEM THAN FOR ME. WHAT SHOULD I DO?CONFRONT HIS MOTHER WITH THEPROBLEM AND LET HER TELL YOURHUSBAND TO STOP COMING OVER SOOFTEN.TELL YOUR HUSBAND YOU FEELNEGLECTED AND THAT YOU WANT SOMETIME SET ASIDE JUST FOR THE TWO OFYOU.GO OVER TO HIS MOTHER'S HOUSEBEFORE HE GETS THERE SO YOU SHOWYOU CARE ABOUT THEM TOO.GO TO A MARRIAGE COUNSELOR. HESEEMS TO HAVE A MOTHER FIXATION.BAFTER 10 YEARS OF HAPPY MARRIAGE,MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN GETTING INTOSOME UNUSUAL SEXUAL PRACTICES.FIRST, HE BOUGHT A VIBRATOR, WHICHHAS GIVEN US SOME INTENSE ORGASMS.NOW HE BROUGHT HOME SOME FLANNELPAJAMAS FOR US TO WEAR DURINGFOREPLAY. THE THINGS IS, WE BOTHGET AROUSED WHILE WEARING THEM,THOUGH I'M NOT SURE WHY.YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND PROBABLY HADA KINKY SIDE ALL ALONG, BUT YOU WEREAFRAID TO ADMIT IT TO EACH OTHER.STOP WITH THE PAJAMAS. A LITTLEORIGINALITY HELPS, BUT YOUR HUSBANDIS STARTING TO GET OUT OF HAND.IF YOU ARE ENJOYING YOURSELVES, GOAHEAD. LET YOUR FANTASIES SUGGESTSOME MORE SPICE FOR YOUR SEX LIVES.YOUR HUSBAND PROBABLY WANTS YOUTO TAKE THE INITIATIVE IN THINKING UPNEW IDEAS. GET A SEX MANUAL FOR NEWIDEAS.CI'VE SEEN THIS MAN FOR TWO YEARS,AND WE'RE TO BE MARRIED IN A MONTH.I JUST LEARNED (NOT FROM HIM) THATHE'S BEEN DIVORCED TWICE. I'M SOANGRY I CAN'T EVEN LOOK AT HIM. IKEEP WONDERING WHAT ELSE HE MAY BECONCEALING FROM ME. WHAT SHOULD IDO?KEEP DROPPING HINTS TO HIM UNTIL HETELLS YOU THE TRUTH.TELL HIM THE WEDDING IS OFF UNTILHE MAKES A COMPLETE CONFESSIONABOUT HIS WHOLE LIFE.DON'T SAY ANYTHING. HE MAY BEAFRAID TO TELL YOU ABOUT HIS BROKENMARRIAGES.CONFRONT HIM WITH THISINFORMATION AND YOUR FEELINGS ABOUT IT.SEE IF YOU CAN WORK THINGS OUT.DI GREW UP AND LIVED IN MONTANAUNTIL TWO YEARS AGO WHEN I MOVEDTO ATLANTA. I'M ATTRACTIVE ANDSUCCESSFUL, BUT SO FAR BIG-CITYWOMEN HAVE GIVEN ME A HEADACHE.WHAT CAN AN OPEN, AFFECTIONATE MANDO TO HELP ALL THE SEXY, STUCK-UPWOMEN REALIZE THAT I'M BETTER FORTHEM THAN THE SLICK, PHONY TYPESOF MEN THEY ALL GO FOR?YOU HAVE A CHIP ON YOUR SHOULDER.YOUR DEMEANING GENERALIZATIONSABOUT WOMEN WILL GET IN THE WAY OFFORMING A RELATIONSHIP.YOU ARE AFRAID OF BIG CITIES. YOUMIGHT HAVE BETTER LUCK IF YOU MOVEDTO A SMALLER TOWN.PLACE A CLASSIFIED AD OUTLININGYOUR OPINIONS. THE KIND OF WOMANYOU WANT MAY DECIDE TO ANSWER.GO BACK TO MONTANA WHERE THEWOMEN ARE MORE TO YOUR LIKING.AI'M VERY INTERESTED IN THISATTRACTIVE WOMAN AT WORK. SHE'SEXACTLY THE PERSON I'D LIKE TO GOOUT WITH. I'VE ASKED HER OUTSEVERAL TIMES, BUT SHE JUST LAUGHSAND SAYS I'M TEASING. HOW CAN ICONVINCE HER THAT I REALLY WANT TOGO OUT WITH HER?ASK HER AGAIN, TELLING HER YOU ARESINCERE. IF SHE ACTS THE SAME WAY,FORGET ABOUT HER.ASK A CO-WORKER TO EXPLAIN TO HERHOW MUCH YOU LIKE HER.BUY HER A BUNCH OF BALLOONS WITH ANOTE ATTACHED, SAYING YOU WANT TOSEE HER.NEVER, NEVER GO OUT WITH ANYONE ATWORK. IT WILL MEAN TROUBLE FOR THEBOTH OF YOU.AI HAVE ALWAYS HAD TROUBLE GETTINGWOMEN TO GO OUT WITH ME. I FINALLYHAD TO FACE FACTS THAT I'M NOT VERYATTRACTIVE. SO I'VE MADE THE DECISIONTO UNDERGO COSMETIC SURGERY TO MAKEME MORE ATTRACTIVE. IS THAT WHAT YOUWOULD RECOMMEND?IF IT BOOSTS YOUR EGO, GO AHEADWITH THE SURGERY.CONTRARY TO THE SAYING, BEAUTY ISNOT SKIN DEEP. IF YOU LOOK GOOD,YOU WILL FEEL GOOD.WOMEN CARE LITTLE FOR A MAN'SAPPEARANCE. IT'S BEAUTY OF THE SOULTHAT ATTRACTS THEM.FIRST TRY BELIEVING YOU AREATTRACTIVE BEFORE ALTERING YOURAPPEARANCE.DMY FIANCEE ALWAYS SAID THAT SHEHAD RELATIVELY FEW SEXUAL EXPERIENCESBEFORE MEETING ME. WHEN WE FINALLYCOMPARED TOTALS, I WAS SHOCKED THATSHE HAD MANY MORE PARTNERS THAN IDID. WHAT DO I DO?POSTPONE YOUR MARRIAGE UNTIL YOUCAN MATCH HER NUMBER OF LOVERS.SMILE AND HIDE YOUR DISAPPOINTMENT.TELL HER ABOUT THE DOZEN OR SOLOVERS YOU FORGOT TO MENTION.DON'T DO ANYTHING. MEN OFTEN CLINGTO THE MYTH THAT THEY SHOULD HAVEMORE SEXUAL EXPERIENCE THAN FEMALES.TELL HER THAT THE REVELATION WAS ABLOW TO YOUR PRIDE AND LET HERAPOLOGIZE PROFUSELY. BUT FORGIVEHER.CI'M 55 AND A NEWLYWED. MY HUSBANDIS 32 AND A REAL HONEY. WE AREHAPPY TOGETHER, BUT I AM UNEASY. IWORRY ABOUT OUR AGE DIFFERENCE. I'MAFRAID HE WON'T FIND ME ATTRACTIVEIN A FEW YEARS AND THAT HE'LL STARTWITH OTHER WOMEN. HE TELLS ME IHAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT ANDTHAT HE'LL LOVE ME FOREVER. WHAT DOYOU THINK?IF YOU ARE WORRIED, WHY DID YOUMARRY HIM? YOUR NEEDLESS WORRY MAYBE A NEUROSIS. SEE A COUNSELOR.PLASTIC SURGERY CAN DO WONDERSNOWADAYS. AS LONG AS YOU KEEPYOURSELF ATTRACTIVE, YOU HAVENOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT.YOUR WORRIES ARE REAL. IN SUCHMARRIAGES THE YOUNGER MAN OFTENFOOLS AROUND. YOU'LL JUST HAVE TOLIVE WITH IT.YOU LOVE HIM, HE LOVES YOU. YOURRELATIONSHIP MAY LAST TO THE END OFYOUR DAYS. STOP WORRYING.DI AM A WOMAN WITH TWO YOUNGERSISTERS, AGES 20 AND 16. I'VENOTICED THAT MY 20-YEAR-OLDSISTER'S BOYFRIEND (HE'S 24) HASBEEN PAYING A LOT OF ATTENTION TOOUR KID SISTER. ONE NIGHT I CAMEHOME AND FOUND HIM IN BED WITH MYKID SISTER. I THREW HIM OUT, BUT IWONDER WHAT TO DO NOW.TELL YOUR KID SISTER THAT SHE ACTEDFOOLISHLY, BUT DON'T TELL THE OTHERSISTER WHAT HAPPENED.DO YOUR BEST TO BREAK UP YOURSISTER'S ROMANCE WITH THE PERVERT.GET A LAWYER TO PRESS CHARGESAGAINST THE GUY.COME ON TO THE GUY UNTIL HE MAKES APASS AT YOU AND THEN TELL YOURSISTER WHAT HAPPENED.AI'M A 48-YEAR-OLD DIVORCEE WITH ADIFFICULT MARRIAGE BEHIND ME. THEONLY GOOD THINGS ABOUT THE MARRIAGEWERE OUR TWO SONS AND OUR SEX LIFE--MY HUSBAND HAD A LARGE PENIS ANDI ALWAYS REACHED CLIMAX. I'M DATINGA MAN WITH A SMALL PENIS, AND IDON'T ORGASM NOW EXCEPT FROM ORALSTIMULATION OR MASTURBATION. WHATCAN I DO?BE HONEST WITH YOUR MALE FRIEND ANDWORK ON YOUR PROBLEM. SEXUALHARMONY CAN BE ACHIEVED WITH ALLSIZES OF MALE EQUIPMENT.BE HONEST WITH YOUR MALE FRIEND ANDCOMPARE THE SIZE OF HIS PENIS WITHYOUR EX-HUSBAND'S. HE MAY NEED TOBUY A DILDO.IF HE IS SENSITIVE ABOUT HIS SIZE,IT IS BETTER NOT TO MENTION YOURSEXUAL FRUSTRATIONS AND JUST ENJOYA GOOD RELATIONSHIP.YOU'RE LETTING THE GUILT OF THEBREAK-UP OF YOUR MARRIAGE GET INTHE WAY OF SEXUAL ENJOYMENT. SEE ACOUNSELOR.ATHE MAN I AM ABOUT TO MARRY HASTOLD ME HE'S BEEN HAVING AN OFF-AGAIN, ON-AGAIN AFFAIR WITH A MAN.HE SAYS THAT HE LOVES ME AND STILLWANTS TO MARRY ME AND THAT HE WILLEND THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS MAN.HE SAID HE HAD ALWAYS BEEN CURIOUSABOUT BEING WITH A MAN AND THAT HISCURIOSITY IS SATISFIED SO WE CANGET MARRIED. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TODO.TELL HIM THAT CURIOSITY KILLED THECAT AND THAT HIS JUST KILLED YOURLOVE FOR HIM.HE MUST BE TELLING THE TRUTH OR HEWOULDN'T WANT TO GET MARRIED. PUTIT BEHIND YOU AND GO ON WITH THEWEDDING.PUT OFF THE WEDDING AND GO FORPRE- MARITAL COUNSELING IN ORDER TOFIGURE OUT WHAT YOU BOTH SHOULD DO.TELL HIM YOU WILL MARRY HIM ONLYAFTER HE SEES A PSYCHIATRIST.CI'M A 22-YEAR-OLD MAN. MYGIRLFRIEND OF FIVE YEARS STOPPEDSEEING ME ABOUT A YEAR AGO. WE KEPTIN TOUCH BY PHONE FOR A WHILE, BUTSHE STOPPED CALLING ME BACK. I'VEBEEN MISERABLE FOR 9 MONTHS AND AMOBSESSED WITH GETTING HER BACK. ILOVE HER. WHAT SHOULD I DO?SHOW HER YOU LOVE HER IN A DRAMATICWAY. HIRE A SKYWRITER IF YOU NEED TO.YOU SHOULD SEE A THERAPIST BECAUSEOF YOUR OBSESSIVE BEHAVIOR.TRY TO SEE HER ONE MORE TIME TODISCOVER WHAT IT IS THAT MADE HERLEAVE YOU.NINE MONTHS IS ENOUGH MOURNING.TRY TO "WASH HER OUT OF YOUR HAIR" ANDMEET NEW WOMEN.DWHEN I MAKE LOVE WITH MYGIRLFRIEND, SHE SOMETIMES LIKES TOTAKE THE FEMALE SUPERIOR POSITION.AS SHE NEARS CLIMAX, SHE ASKS ME TOSLAP HER REAR END HARD, BUT I DON'TFEEL COMFORTABLE HITTING A WOMAN.WHAT SHOULD I DO?TELL HER IT MAKES YOU FEELUNCOMFORTABLE AND REFUSE.WHY NOT GIVE HER PLEASURE INSTEADOF LETTING OLD-FASHIONED SOCIALRULES DOMINATE WHERE THEY DON'TBELONG - IN THE BEDROOM?HIT HER BOTTOM AS HARD AS YOU CANTHE NEXT TIME. THAT SHOULD SHAKEHER OUT OF HER ENTHUSIASM FOR IT.MOST WOMEN MAKE THIS REQUEST ATONE TIME OR ANOTHER. GO AHEAD, BECAUSESHE WILL SOON TIRE OF IT.Bpߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠߠﺠ۪ݠ򠮠۷ȩHȌ)JJJJHȌ)ȑHHȩH H H  ! 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ALL CAN BEPLEASURABLE.THE MISSIONARY POSITION WAS NAMEDBECAUSE IN THIS POSITION THE MANCAN BEST PERFORM HIS "MISSION"--IMPREGNATING THE WOMAN.IT IS NAMED AFTER THE MISSIONARIESWHO TRIED TO TEACH NATIVE PEOPLESTTHE BEST PLACES TO MEETPOTENTIAL PARTNERS.THE BEST PLACE TO MEET PEOPLE IS INA PLACE YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE ANDWHERE YOU'D ENJOY BEING IF YOUDIDN'T MEET ANYONE.IN 87% OF THE TIME, THE ONLYPLEASURABLE WAY TO HAVE INTERCOURSEIS WITH THE MAN ON TOP.THEIF IT WORKS AND IT DOESN'T HURT,WHY NOT USE IT?EXCEPT WHEN SHE'S MENSTRUATING, AWOMAN'S VAGINA ALWAYS HAS THE SAMEFEEL TO IT.EACH PART OF HER MENSTRUAL CYCLECREATES A DIFFERENT ENVIRONMENT INTHE VAGINA.ACCORDING TO RESEARCHERS, BARSAND DISCOS ARE RTANTAS DISCUSSING ATTITUDES ABOUT SEX.MONEY PLAYS A BIG ROLE IN OUR LIVESAND SHOULD BE DISCUSSED BEFOREMARRIAGE AND DURING MARRIAGE AS WELL.GITS LENGTH.COLOR AND TEXTURE HAVE MORE TO DOWITH HAIR BEAUTY THAN LENGTH.MEN CAN GET TURNED ON BY A WOMANWITH A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR.A GOOD WIT AND SENSE OF FUN CAN BEEXTREMELY CHARMING.DISCUSSING ATTITUDES ABOUT MONEYBEFORE MARRIAGE IS JUST AS IMPORRANGED, IS BETTER THAN LESS.A MAN MAY NOTICE A WOMAN'SSMILE OR HER EYES BEFORE HE NOTICES HERFIGURE.EACH MAN NOTICES DIFFERENT THINGSIN WOMEN AT DIFFERENT TIMES.SOME MEN ARE ATTRACTED MORE BYTHE COLOR AND TEXTURE OF A WOMAN'SHAIR THAN THEY ARE BY IPBEING INVOLVED.MANY MEN PREFER THEIR SEXUALEXPERIENCES TO BE PART OF A LASTINGRELATIONSHIP.THE SIGHT OF A PARTIALLY ORREVEALINGLY DRESSED WOMAN CAN BEMORE ATTRACTIVE TO A MAN THAN AWOMAN WHO IS COMPLETELY NUDE.SOMETIMES MORE CLOTHING, PROPERLYAMAN'S LUBRICATION BEFOREINTERCOURSE CAN BE AFFECTED BY HOWMUCH PRESSURE SHE FEELS SHE ISUNDER TO HAVE SEX.SHE MAY FEEL ANXIETY AND BE UNABLETO MAKE LOVE.A COMMON MYTH ABOUT SEX IS THATALL MEN PREFER SEX ON A CASUAL BASISWITHOUT A LASTING RELATIONSH A GOOD WAY FOR A COUPLE TOHELP IRON OUT THE PROBLEMS THAT LEDTO THE AFFAIR.A POOR REASON TO MARRY IS SO THAT APERSON WILL NEVER FEEL LONELYAGAIN.WE ARE ALL ALONE, ULTIMATELY, ANDTHAT IS SOMETHING WE MUST ALL LEARNTO LIVE WITH, MARRIED OR NOT.A WOELLS YOU THAT SHELOVES ANOTHER MAN BUT SAYS THAT SHESTILL LOVES YOU, SHE COULD BETELLING THE TRUTH.IT IS POSSIBLE TO LOVE MORE THANONE PERSON AT THE SAME TIME.A PERSON FEELING GUILTY ABOUT ANAFFAIR WOULD BE ADVISED TO SEE AMARRIAGE COUNSELOR.IT IS@@<<@@\bBb\@ @@ @ @ 0 "" "@8DDD8:FF:\bb\@@:F|<@>>H0BBBb\BBB$DDTTlB$$BBBb\@<@@(@ @@@j2x@ࠠ@@``ࠠ @а@@ࠠ@@@@ @@@@@@@@@@؈@@@@@@ @<< @< <(DPPPPP@@@@@ @@@@ @@ @ @@@@@@@@ @@@@@@@@@@@ @@@ ` @ @ @@@ @@@@@@` @@@ @@ @ @@ @8DRj2x@ࠠ@@``ࠠ @а@@ࠠ@@@@ @@@@@@@@@@؈@@@@@@ @@@@ @@@@@@    VE THE APPARATUS TO MAKE BABIESDOES NOT MEAN THEY MUST WANT TOHAVE THEM.STUDIES SHOW THAT WOMEN WHO HAVEBEEN RAPED WERE GIVING STRONGSEXUAL SIGNALS TO THE MALES WHOATTACKED THEM.RAPE IS A VIOLENT ASSAULT THAT HASLITTLE TO DO WITH SEXUAL SIGNALS.IT CAN MAKE THEVAGINA VERY SENSITIVE, ANDINTERCOURSE WILL BE PAINFUL. SUCHINFECTIONS SHOULD BE TREATEDIMMEDIATELY.THE DESIRE TO HAVE CHILDREN IS ABASIC BIOLOGICAL FUNCTION OF WOMEN.SOME WOMEN, LIKE MEN, TRULY DO NOTWANT CHILDREN. JUST BECAUSE THEYHATHEPROPER FUNCTIONING OF THE REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM.A MAN WHO LIKES TO WEAR WOMEN'SCLOTHING IS USUALLY BISEXUAL.THOUGH HE PROBABLY IS ATRANSVESTITE, HE IS NOT NECESSARILYBISEXUAL.VAGINAL INFECTIONS RARELY INTERFEREWITH INTERCOURSE.CERTAIN INFECTIONS IN A TEST TUBE) IS CARRYING OUTSIDETHE BODY IN AN ARTIFICALENVIRONMENT.ANY DISCHARGE FROM A WOMAN'SVAGINA, OTHER THAN DURINGMENSTRATION, INDICATES ANINFECTION.THE VAGINA HAS A VARIETY OFDISCHARGES THAT ARE PERFECTLYHEALTHY AND EVEN ESSENTIAL TO ETTERSOLUTION.THE WOMAN'S CHROMOSOMESDETERMINE THE SEX OF A CHILD.IN FACT, IT IS THE MAN'S SPERM THATDETERMINES A CHILD'S SEX.A WOMAN WHO IS PREGNANT ISCARRYING A CHILD IN VITRO.SHE IS CARRYING IT IN VIVO (INSIDE THE BODY). IN VITRO ("IN GLASS" --DINNER WITH THEM EVERY SUNDAY ANDYOU'D RATHER WATCH A GAME, TURN ONTHE TV THERE TO SHOW HOW YOU FEEL.IT IS IMPORTANT TO BALANCE YOURNEEDS WITH THE NEEDS OF YOUR WIFE'SPARENTS; A COMPROMISE, SUCH ASGOING OVER EVERY OTHER SUNDAY,WOULD PROBABLY BE A B AND SECOND, THEPERSON WILL THINK YOU MIGHT TELL STORIES ABOUT HIM OR HER.IF A COUPLE IS HAVING PROBLEMS WITHA MOTHER-IN-LAW, THE BEST THINGTHEY CAN DO IS TO MOVE FAR AWAY.CONFLICTS ARE RARELY RESOLVED BYRUNNING AWAY.IF YOUR IN-LAWS INSIST YOU HAVE IS LOCATED JUST BELOWTHE PUBIC BONE AND IT IS OUTSIDETHE VAGINA.WYING BELOW THE SKIN OVER THE PUBICBONE.THE OLYMPUS MONS ON A WOMAN ISEQUIVALENT TO THE ADAM'S APPLE ON AMAN.IT'S ACTUALLY THE NAME OF A VOLCANOON MARS.THE CLITORIS IS LOCATED INSIDE THEVAGINA, LEANING TOWARD THE RIGHTSIDE OF THE BODY.THE CLITORISMAN BEINGS, ANDCAN AND DO CHANGE PHYSICALLY.THE PREFERRED METHOD A WOMANSHOULD FOLLOW IN MASTURBATINGIS USING A DILDO.THERE IS NO "PREFERRED METHOD" FORANYTHING IN SEX.THE MONS VENERIS REFERS TO AWOMAN'S BREASTS.IT REFERS TO PADS OF FATTY TISSUELATE.IT'S ALL A MATTER OF INDIVIDUALTASTE, AND THE FACT THAT A WOMANMASTURBATES WON'T NECESSARILYAFFECT HER SEX LIFE.THE INTENSITY OF THE FIRST ORGASM AWOMAN HAS DETERMINES THE KIND OFSEX LIFE SHE WILL HAVE FOR THE RESTOF HER LIFE.WE ARE DYNAMIC HUE.A WOMAN WHO MASTURBATES BEFOREEVER HAVING SEX WILL NEVER EXPERIENCEORGASM DURING SEX.IN FACT, THE BETTER A WOMAN KNOWSHER BODY, THE MORE EXCITING HER SEXLIFE CAN BE.WOMEN WHO MASTURBATE HAVE LESSDESIRE FOR INTERCOURSE THAN THOSEWHO DON'T MASTURBIX IS THE OPENING TO THEUTERUS.IF A WOMAN DOESN'T KNOW WHERE HERCLITORIS IS, SHE PROBABLY DOESN'THAVE ONE.ALL WOMEN HAVE ONE. HOWEVER, SOMEWOMEN ARE RELUCTANT TO EXAMINE ORTOUCH THEMSELVES AND MAY NOT BEAWARE OF WHAT THEIR GENITALS LOOKOR FEEL LIKHE "RIGHT" WAY TO HAVE SEX.DURING INTERCOURSE IN CERTAINPOSITIONS, A MAN'S PENIS MAYACCIDENTALLY TOUCH THE WOMAN'SLARGE INTESTINE.THE INTESTINE IS IN A WHOLEDIFFERENT SYSTEM THAN THEREPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM.CERVIX IS THE FRENCH WORD FORORGASM.THE CERVEϠɠALPREFERENCE.A HOMOSEXUAL EXPERIENCE AS A YOUTHIS COMMON, BUT ONE AS AN ADULTINDICATES THE PERSON IS GAY.ONE ENCOUNTER DOES NOT MAKE ALIFESTYLE.LIVING TOGETHER BEFORE MARRIAGEIMPROVES A COUPLE'S CHANCE FOR AGOOD MARRIAGE AND A GOOD SEX LIFE.THEY ENCE FOR AWOMAN IS ALWAYS PAINFUL.IF THE PARTNER IS CONSCIOUS OF THEWOMAN'S INEXPERIENCE, THE FIRSTINTERCOURSE CAN BE PLEASURABLE IFHE IS CAREFUL AND CONSIDERATE.PRESENT-DAY PSYCHOLOGY CONSIDERSHOMOSEXUALITY A NEUROSIS.IT IS CONSIDERED A VALID SEXUURE SHE IS FEELING.FREUD'S THEORY THAT WOMEN WHOHAVE ONLY CLITORAL ORGASMS AREIMMATURE AND THOSE THAT HAVE VAGINALORGASMS ARE MATURE IS WIDELY ACCEPTED.THAT WAS THE GOSPEL ACCORDING TOFREUD, BUT IT IS NO LONGER ACCEPTEDTODAY.THE FIRST SEXUAL EXPERIT WOMAN SHOULD BEDISSUADED FROM HAVING SEX.IT IS SAFE TO HAVE SEX UP TO ABOUTSIX WEEKS BEFORE BIRTH.ONE WAY TO GET A WOMAN WHO HASTROUBLE WITH ORGASMS TO HAVE ONE ISFOR THE MALE TO SCREAM IN HER EARWHEN HE HAS HIS.IT MAY DISTRACT HER FROM THEPLEASUSED BY THE HORMONES RELEASEDDURING MASTURBATION.WARTS ARE CAUSED BY VIRUSES.A YOUNG MAN WHO MASTURBATESFREQUENTLY MAY DEVELOP CALLUSES ONTHE HAND HE USES.IT DOES NOT CAUSE CALLUSES. MANYMYTHS EXIST ABOUT THE DANGERS OFMASTURBATION.A NEWLY PREGNANFE IS SUDDENLY NOTINTERESTED IN MAKING LOVE ANYMORE,HER HUSBAND SHOULD ASK IF SHE ISHAVING AN AFFAIR.THERE MAY BE MANY REASONS WHY HERDESIRE TEMPORARILY WANED, ANDCONFRONTING HER ABOUT AN AFFAIR MAYMAKE HER ANGRY.WARTS ON A GIRL'S FINGERS MAY BECALFOR THIS INFORMATION.IF A COUPLE HAS NOT HAD SEX FORSEVERAL CONSECUTIVE MONTHS, THEYSHOULD SEE A SEX THERAPIST AS SOONAS POSSIBLE.THEY SHOULD TALK ABOUT WHAT HASBEEN GOING ON DURING THAT TIME ANDHOW THEY HAVE BEEN FEELING ABOUTEACH OTHER.IF A WI DIFFERENCES IN THEPELVIC STRUCTURES, MEN TEND TO BEKNOCK-KNEED AND WOMEN TEND TO BEBOW-LEGGED.ACTUALLY THE OPPOSITE IS TRUE.URSE.SHALLOW AND FREQUENT PENETRATIONIS MORE AROUSING TO A WOMAN THAN DEEPAND SLOWER PENETRATION.A VARIETY OF MOVEMENTS INCREASE AWOMAN'S AROUSAL.A WOMAN'S VAGINA DOES NOT CHANGEDURING INTERCOURSE.IT GETS LARGER TO ACCOMMODATE THEPENIS.BECAUSE OF IMAGINATION OR CHANGE OFENVIRONMENT CAN DO WONDERS FORBOREDOM.INTERRUPTING INTERCOURSE TOPERFORM ORAL SEX ON A WOMAN WILLMAKE HER THINK THE MAN DOES NOTWANT TO EJACULATE INSIDE HER.MANY WOMEN ENJOY DIRECT CLITORALSTIMULATION IN ADDITION TOINTERCO OF AWOMAN'S BODY ARE HER GENITALS,HER BREASTS, AND HER BEHIND, INTHAT ORDER.EACH WOMAN'S BODY IS DIFFERENT, ANDTHE WHOLE BODY CAN BE EROTIC.ONCE A COUPLE BECOMES SEXUALLYBORED, IT WILL BE VERY DIFFICULTFOR THEM TO RESPARK INTEREST INSEX.A LITTLEIDE HER VAGINA.SPERM ARE MICROSCOPIC AND THEIRMOVEMENT IS UNDETECTABLE.IF A WOMAN DOES NOT SAY ANYTHINGABOUT SEX, IT MEANS SHE IS HAPPYWITH HER SEX LIFE.MANY WOMEN (AS WELL AS MEN) HAVE AHARD TIME DISCUSSING THEIR SEXUALNEEDS.THE MOST EROTIC PARTSARTICIPATING, BOTH WILL CHANGE THERHYTHM.AS A RULE OF THUMB, THE BEST TIMETO MAKE LOVE IS RIGHT BEFORE ACOUPLE GOES TO SLEEP.THERE IS NO "BEST" TIME. EVERYCOUPLE SHOULD FIND THEIR OWN BESTTIME.A WOMAN CAN DETECT THE MOVEMENTOF INDIVIDUAL SPERM INS IS ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TOSTIMULATE A WOMAN'S CLITORIS ANDHER G-SPOT AT THE SAME TIME.THEY ARE LOCATED IN THE SAME AREA,AND THE EXPERIENCE IS EXTREMELYPLEASURABLE. THE MAN IS THE PARTNER WHOCONTROLS THE RHYTHM OF INTERCOURSE.SINCE BOTH PARTNERS AREPxOFTEN SO GREAT FORYOUNG MEN TO SHOW THEY ARE SEXUALLYACTIVE THAT THEY WOULD RATHER LIETHAN ADMIT THEY ARE VIRGINS.A WOMAN CAN LEARN HOW TO CARESS AMAN'S PENIS BY OBSERVING ADEMONSTRATION OF HOW HE STROKES HISPENIS WHILE HE MASTURBATES.THIS TECHNIQUTATION ISOFTEN THE BEST WAY TO BREAK THE ICEAND FIND OUT IF THERE IS ANY CHANCEFOR ROMANCE OR A RELATIONSHIP.TEENAGE BOYS AND YOUNG MEN WHOARE VIRGINS RARELY ADMIT THE FACT ANDMAY EVEN BOAST OF THE SEXUALEXPERIENCES THEY NEVER HAD.PEER PRESSURE IS SWITCHING BETWEEN PASSIVITY ANDAGGRESSIVENESS GIVES MEN THEFREEDOM TO ENJOY SEX IN A GREATERVARIATION OF MOODS THAN ANY ONEROLE OFFERS.A GOOD WAY FOR A WOMAN TO MEET AMAN IN WHOM SHE IS INTERESTED IS TOINVITE HIM OUT TO LUNCH.A SIMPLE, DIRECT INVISATISFYING HIMSELF THROUGHMASTURBATION IS A NORMAL PART OF AMAN'S SEXUAL ACTIVITY, EVEN WHEN HEHAS REGULAR SEXUAL RELATIONS.A MAN WHO AGGRESSIVELY SEDUCES AWOMAN AND TAKES THE INITIATIVE INBED MAY ALSO ENJOY BEING SEDUCEDAND PLAYING A PASSIVE ROLE.ATIONDURING INTERCOURSE STIMULATEDIFFERENT PARTS OF THE PENIS.JUST AS DIFFERENT POSITIONS PROVIDEDIFFERENT SENSATIONS FOR THEWOMAN'S VAGINA.THERE IS NOTHING WRONG FOR MENWHO ARE MARRIED OR WHO HAVE REGULARSEXUAL RELATIONS TO MASTURBATE ONOCCASION.BING IS VISIBLE AND CAN BEOBSERVED.SOME MEN INVEST THEIR EGO IN THESIZE OF THEIR PENIS AND ITSLONGEVITY OF ERECTION DURINGINTERCOURSE.THIS TYPE OF IMMATURE OR INSECUREMEN IS SOMETIMES REFERRED TO AS A"PHALLIC NARCISSIST."DIFFERENT ANGLES OF PENETRRGASM JUST BY RUBBING HISCROTCH AGAINST A WOMAN.INTENSE CONTACT WHILE TWO PARTNERSARE HUGGING AND RUBBING AGAINSTEACH OTHER MAY TRIGGER ANEJACULATION BY THE MAN.A SLIGHT THROBBING MOVEMENT ISSOMETIMES DETECTABLE IN AN EXCITED,ERECT PENIS.THE THROB PAINFUL.ESPECIALLY IF THE PENIS IS DRY, THEFRICTION CAN HURT.A MAN CAN TELL THE DIFFERENCE IF AWOMAN USES ONE OR BOTH HANDS TOCARESS HIS GENITALS.TWO HANDS MEAN TWICE AS MUCHCONTACT IN DIFFERENT PLACES.IT IS POSSIBLE FOR A DRESSED MAN TOHAVE AN OACCIDENTALLY, INTHE PASSION OF THE MOMENT.THE PAIN CAN KILL THE PASSION.A VEIN IS SOMETIMES VISIBLE NEARTHE SURFACE OF THE SHAFT OF THEPENIS.BLOOD IS WHAT CAUSES THE PENIS TOBECOME ERECT AND STIFF.A WOMAN'S HAND PUMPING HARD ON AMAN'S PENIS CAN BEEOR DIMINISH IN THE PASSION OF THEMOMENT.ONE OF THE MORE SENSITIVE PARTS OFTHE HEAD OF THE PENIS IS THECORONA.LOCATED AROUND THE PERIMETER OF THEHEAD, IT IS MORE SENSTIVE THAN THEREST OF THE HEAD.A MAN MIGHT OBJECT IF HIS PARTNERBITES HIS PENIS, PENISFOR A SUSTAINED PERIOD.SOME MEN, FOR A VARIETY OF REASONS,NEED SUSTAINED, INTENSE STIMULATIONTO EJACULATE.A MAN'S PENIS CAN BECOME SOREFROM MUCH SUSTAINED CONTACT DURINGSEX.ESPECIALLY IF LUBRICATION, NATURALOR OTHERWISE, IS ALLOWED TO DWINDLER.SOME MEN, WITH A LITTLE EXPERIENCE,LEARN TO CONTROL THEIR EJACULATIONAND DE-SENSITIZE THEMSELVES ENOUGHTO MAKE INTERCOURSE LAST AS LONG ASTHEY WOULD LIKE.SOME MEN CANNOT HAVE AN ORGASMUNLESS LONG, RAPID AND VERY INTENSEPRESSURE IS APPLIED TO THEENIS TO SWELL.THERE IS NO BONE INSIDE THE MAN'SPENIS.THE PENIS IS MADE OF SOFT TISSUETHAT BECOMES ENGORGED WITH BLOOD TOMAKE IT STIFF.A SEXUALLY INEXPERIENCED MAN WHOACCIDENTALLY EJACULATES DURINGFOREPLAY CAN DEVELOP INTO A GOODLOVER AND SEX PARTNHEAD.ALTHOUGH THE SHAFT IS ALSOSENSITIVE, THERE ARE MORE NERVEENDINGS IN THE HEAD OF THE PENIS.A MAN'S PENIS GROWS LARGER DURINGAN ERECTION BECAUSE IT BECOMESFILLED WITH BLOOD.THE TISSUES OF THE PENIS BECOMEENGORGED WITH BLOOD, CAUSING THEENTIRE P h !""#$%%&&''())*+,-./00123345677P_ q(G=ϣ!}mrk0M Ф}VbHAVING AN ACTIVE FANTASY LIFE CANIMPROVE ONE'S SEX LIFE.THINKING ABOUT SEX CAN INCREASEONE'S ENJOYMENT OF THE REAL THING.THE MOST SENSITIVE PART OF THEPENIS IS AT ITS           O EJACULATE TWO OR THREE TIMESDURING A SESSION OF LOVEMAKING.BRIEF RESTS OR PERIODS OF LEISURELYSTIMULATION AFTER AN ORGASM GIVE AMAN THE CHANCE TO REST WITHOUTREALLY STOPPING.THE CLITORIS IS THE FEMALEEQUIVALENT TO THE PENIS.THEY DEVELOP FROM THE PROACH TOCOMMUNICATION.IF A WOMAN ASKS A MAN TOSTIMULATE HER CLITORIS WITH A VIBRATORAND HE REFUSES, SAYING HE DOESN'TNEED ANY HELP, HE'S SHOWING EGOTISM.PLEASING A WOMAN IMPLIESFLEXIBILITY IN MEETING HER NEEDS.IT IS POSSIBLE FOR A MAN TO BE ABLETISSING THEM IS USUALLY A CREATIVEAND PLEASING EXPERIENCE.A GOOD WAY TO SHATTER THE TRUSTAFTER SEX IS TO TURN TO A MAN WHOHAS JUST EJACULATED AND SAY, "ISTHAT ALL?"ANNOUNCING YOUR DISAPPOINTMENTAFTER A SEXUAL ENCOUNTER WHILESTILL IN BED IS A POOR APGAG WHILE TRYINGTHIS.BITING YOUR PARTNER'S LIP DURINGINTERCOURSE CAN INTERFERE WITHLOVEMAKING.AFTER ALL, YOU'RE NOT TRYING TOPUNISH YOUR PARTNER, ARE YOU?KISSING THE PALMS OF A MAN'SHANDS CAN BE A REAL TURN-ON.THE PALMS ARE A SENSITIVE AREA, ANDKNSITIVITY TOEACH OTHER'S MOTION CAN KEEP FALL-OUTS TO A MINIMUM.IN MEN, ORGASM AND EJACULATIONARE THE SAME.THEY ARE ONE AND THE SAME.IT IS NOT UNUSUAL FOR A WOMAN NOTTO BE ABLE TO TAKE AN ENTIRE PENISINSIDE HER MOUTH DURING FELLATIO.IT IS EASY TO ERCOURSE.SOME WOMEN DON'T REALIZE HOW STRONGTHEY ARE OR THAT THE MAN NEEDS ALITTLE FREEDOM OF MOVEMENT TOO.PENETRATING THE VAGINA FROMBEHIND ("DOGGY STYLE" INTERCOURSE) ISTRICKY AND TAKES SKILL TO KEEP THEPENIS FROM SLIPPING OUT.BUT PRACTICE AND SERIMMING OR SHAVING PATCHES OFPUBIC HAIR CAN STIMULATE A MAN.SOME MEN CONSIDER A PARTLY ORCOMPLETELY SHAVED PUBIC AREA VERYEXCITING.DURING INTERCOURSE A WOMAN WRAPSHER LEGS SO TIGHTLY AROUND A MAN,SHE RESTRICTS HIS ABILITY TO CREATETHE MOTION OF INTEW WHO ABUSEINTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS WITHPATIENTS ARE SUBJECT TO HARSHPENALTIES.A WOMAN WHO ROCKS HER HIPS ANDROTATES HER PELVIS DURINGINTERCOURSE CAUSES THE MAN'S PENISTO SLIDE IN AND OUT OF HER.AND MANY MEN FIND THIS MOTIONEXTREMELY PLEASURABLE.TERM COUNSELING.AND MANY OTHER TYPES OF PROBLEMSREQUIRE LONGER THERAPY.A MALE SEX THERAPIST WHO ATTEMPTSSEXUAL RELATIONS WITH A FEMALEPATIENT IS GUILTY OF MISCONDUCT ANDSHOULD BE REPORTED TO AUTHORITIES.NEVER AGREE TO HAVE SEX WITH ATHERAPIST. THE FPOWER OVER YOU.TAKING OUT A CLASSIFIED AD IN ORDERTO MEET SOMEONE IS NOT NECESSARILYAN ACT OF DESPERATION.IN FACT, IT'S A GOOD WAY TO MEETSOMEONE AND ALLOWS ONE SOMESCREENING BEFORE MAKING ANY REPLY.MANY SEXUAL PROBLEMS CAN BESOLVED DURING SHORT-TT CAN BE DANGEROUS FOR A WOMANTO START DATING OR FORMING A SEXUALRELATIONSHIP WITH HER BOSS ORSUPERVISOR AT WORK.THE BOSS OR SUPERIOR IS ENDANGERINGBOTH HIS JOB AND YOURS. IT IS NOT AGOOD IDEA TO START A RELATIONSHIPWITH SOMEONE WHO HAS PROFESSIONALGET IN THEWAY OF GOOD SEXUAL FUNCTIONING.PARENTS WHO SEND THEIR CHILD TO ASLEEP-AWAY CAMP SHOULD BE AWARETHAT THE CHILD'S VIRGINITY MAY BELOST.OR ANYWHERE ELSE THE CHILD IS ALONEAND INDEPENDENT. PARENTS CANNOTLIVE THEIR CHILDREN'S LIVES FORTHEM.I.SOFT-ENTRY TECHNIQUES HAVE BEENDEVELOPED AND CAN BE TAUGHT BY SEXCOUNSELORS OR THERAPISTS.A PERSON IS SAID TO HAVE A FETISHIF HE OR SHE NEEDS THE SIGHT OF ORDIRECT CONTACT WITH AN OBJECT ORBODY PART IN ORDER TO REACH ORGASM.A FETISH CAN SOMETIMES IN ALCOHOL OR DRUGS.MEN SOMETIMES NEED TO BE SHOWNWHERE A WOMAN'S CLITORIS ISLOCATED.SOME MEN NEED GUIDANCE OR ARE NOTFAMILIAR WITH FEMALE ANATOMY.IT IS POSSIBLE FOR A MAN TOPENETRATE A WOMAN'S VAGINA EVEN IFHE HAS DIFFICULTY ATTAINING ANERECTION  !!"##%%&''()**++,--.//0012233455P[' ENk?7ײ;c!SgA PERSON CAN MORE EASILY BEMANIPULATED INTO HAVING SEX WHENTHEY HAVE TAKEN A LOT OF ALCOHOL ORDRUGS.ANYBODY'S ABILITY TO WITHSTANDPRESSURE IS REDUCED BYOVERINDULGENCE     EJACULATION CAN PROJECT THE SEMENTWO FEET OR MORE.BUT MOST EJACULATIONS DON'T HAVEVERY MUCH FORCE, AND THE FORCE DOESNOT DETERMINE THE AMOUNT OFPLEASURE THE MAN EXPERIENCES.MEN SOMETIMES EQUATE THE FORCEBEHIND AN EJACULATION WITH THEAMOUNT OF PLEATENSITY.WOMEN OFTEN MAINTAIN THAT THEOPPOSITE IS TRUE FOR THEM.THE CAPACITY FOR MULTIPLE CLIMAXESBY MEN DECREASES WITH AGE.RELATIVELY FEW MEN ARE ABLE TO HAVESECOND OR THIRD ORGASMS IN A SINGLESEXUAL ENCOUNTER IN LATER YEARS.THE FORCE OF SOME MEN'SLEGS TOO TIGHTLY AROUNDHIM DURING INTERCOURSE IN THEMISSIONARY POSITION.IN WRESTLING THE MANEUVER IS KNOWNAS A SCISSOR-HOLD, AND STRONG LEGSCAN HURT ANY MAN.MEN WHO HAVE A SECOND ORGASMSHORTLY AFTER THE FIRST USUALLYFIND THE SECOND DIMINISHED ININIL THEPROBLEM IS RESOLVED.A VERY HEAVY MAN, OR ONE WHO HAS ASMALL PENIS MAY HAVE PROBLEMS WITHA REAR-ENTRY POSITION FORINTERCOURSE.IT MAY BE DIFFICULT FOR HIM TOPENETRATE OR TO KEEP HIS PENIS FROMSLIPPING OUT.A WOMAN CAN HURT A MAN BYLOCKING HER SCROTUM IS EXTERNAL, WHERE IT ISCOOLER THAN BODY TEMPERATURE.BECAUSE THE MISSIONARY POSITION ISCONSIDERED VERY STIMULATING, MENWITH PREMATURE EJACULATION PROBLEMSSHOULD TRY OTHER POSITIONS.MEN WITH THIS PROBLEM ARE ADVISEDTO AVOID THIS POSITION UNTY SPERM CAN MOVEABOUT 3 TO 7 INCHES PER HOUR.THEY CAN ALSO SWIM AGAINST MUCOUSCURRENTS AND AGAINST THE PULL OFGRAVITY.SPERM ARE USUALLY NOT PRODUCED ATTHE BODY TEMPERATURE OF 98.6DEGREES F.NOR CAN THEY LAST LONG AT THISTEMPERATURE. THAT IS WHY THEMCOUNT.THE ACTIVE INGREDIENT IN MARIJUANA,THC, AFFECTS THE HORMONES.ONE EFFECT OF DRINKING COFFEE MAYBE TO MAKE SPERM MOVE FASTER.THE CAFFEINE ACTS ON THE SPERM INMUCH THE SAME WAY AS IT ACTS ON APERSON IN THE MORNING -- AS A "PICKME UP."A HEALTHA MAN MIGHTCONSIDER HOLDING OFF HAVING SEXWITH HIM FOR A WHILE.MANY COUPLES WHO WAIT TO HAVE SEXHAVE A BETTER CHANCE OF CONTINUINGA RELATIONSHIP THAN THOSE WHO HAVESEX ON THE FIRST DATE.IT HAS BEEN FOUND THAT SMOKINGMARIJUANA MAY LOWER A MAN'S SPERTHE MAN WHO CONSISTENTLY HOLDSHIS ERECTION FOR A VERY LONG TIME MAYHAVE THE SAME PROBLEMS AS THE MANWHO HAS IMPOTENCY DIFFICULTIES.THE SAME KIND OF ANXIETIES ARESHOWN IN MEN WITH BOTH THESEPROBLEMS.A WOMAN CONCERNED IN PURSUING ARELATIONSHIP WITH ISM ANDSADISM HAVE SIMILAR PSYCHOLOGICALROOTS.BOTH DEVELOP FROM FEELINGS OF SHAMEAND REVULSION FOR SEXUALRELATIONSHIPS.ACCORDING TO STUDIES, MOST OF THEMALE POPULATION MASTURBATES.THIS NUMBER MAY CHANGE SLIGHTLY FORDIFFERENT SOCIO-ECONOMIC GROUPS.YFOR THE WIVES' CONDITION.MANY MEN HAVE DIFFICULTY KEEPINGAN ERECTION FROM TIME TO TIME.IT IS A COMMON OCCURRENCE.A PROPHYLACTIC IS A DRUG OR DEVICEUSED FOR THE PREVENTION OF VENEREALDISEASE.A CONDOM CAN BE USED IN THIS WAY.EXTREME FORMS OF MASOCHANT BOYS OFTEN HAVEERECTIONS IN THE FIRST HOUR OFLIFE.IT IS A NORMAL RESPONSE.MEN IN SOME SOCIETIES SOMETIMESEXPERIENCE THE UNPLEASANT SIDEEFFECTS OF PREGNANCY ALONG WITHTHEIR WIVES.THEY WILL HAVE NAUSEA, GAIN WEIGHTAND HAVE BACK PAINS, IN SYMPATHRCUMSIZED MAN.THE SKIN UNDER THE FORESKIN IS MORESENSITIVE IN AN UNCIRCUMCIZED MAN.MEN ARE AFRAID TO CRY BECAUSE THEYTHINK IT AFFECTS THEIR VIRILITY.EVEN THOUGH IT HAS NO BASIS INPHYSIOLOGY, MEN IN MANY CULTURESSHARE THIS UNFOUNDED FEAR.NEWBORN INFOTHING WRONG WITH THISIF IT'S PRACTICED AS JUST ONE OFMANY SEXUAL FANTASIES.A MAN'S TESTICLES MOVEINDEPENDENTLY OF EACH OTHER.BUT THEY ARE VERY SENSITIVE ANDTHEIR MOBILITY IS LIMITED.A CIRCUMSIZED MAN EXPERIENCESINTERCOURSE DIFFERENTLY THAN ANUNCI p !!""#$$$%%&'(()*++,--.//0112334PKRNsyʽDw<֟>St.oA MAN MAY ENJOY HAVING HIS NIPPLESSUCKED, JUST LIKE A WOMAN DOES.THE NIPPLES ARE VERY SENSITIVE INSOME MEN.WEARING WOMEN'S UNDERWEAR CANTURN ON SOME MEN.AND THERE'S N        THE SIGHT ANDODOR OF PERSPIRATION.EROTIC APPAREL IS SOMETIMES LESSAROUSING THAN EVERYDAY CLOTHES.SOME MEN DO NOT GET AROUSED BY SEXYCLOTHES AND PREFER THE SIGHT OF AWOMAN IN JEANS AND A T-SHIRT.THE MALE'S SHOULDER STRUCTURE ISWIDER THAN HIS HIP STD THE OTHER AND INITIATE SEXUALACTIVITY WITH THE SIGHTLESS PARTNER.IT CAN ALSO BE SEXUALLY STIMULATING.THE ROLES SHOULD ALSO BE REVERSED TOO.EXCESSIVE PERSPIRATION CAN BE ABIG TURN-ON FOR SOME MEN.IT'S A MATTER OF INDIVIDUAL TASTE,BUT SOME MEN ENJOY.A WOMAN WHO SENDS HER FORMERBOYFRIEND PHOTOS OF HERSELF HAVINGINTERCOURSE WITH ANOTHER MAN HAS APROBLEM.SUCH A WOMAN IS UNNECESSARILY CRUELAND PROBABLY NEEDS PROFESSIONALHELP.ONE WAY TO BUILD TRUST BETWEEN ACOUPLE IS FOR ONE PARTNER TO BLIND-FOLOF THE SAME AND THE OPPOSITE SEX.THE TERM IS USED TO DESCRIBE PEOPLEATTRACTED EQUALLY TO MEMBERS OFBOTH SEXES.THE WORD "LESBIAN" IS DERIVED FROMTHE GREEK ISLAND OF LESBOS.THE ISLAND WAS THE HOME OF THEPOETESS SAPPHO, WHO WROTE OF LOVEBETWEEN WOMENJUST ANOTHER WASTEPRODUCT THE BODY DEALS WITH.IT CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS FOR AWOMAN TO PERFORM FELLATIO ON A MANWHILE HE IS DRIVING A CAR.THE MAN CAN LOSE CONTROL OF HIMSELFAND THE CAR.THE TERM "KINSEY 3" REFERS TO APERSON WHO IS ATTRACTED TO PERSONSPRESSURE, OR THE SPERM CANLEAK OUT OVER THE SIDES.A LUBRICATED CONDOM IS SAFER THANAN UNLUBRICATED ONE.THE UNLUBRICATED CONDOM CAN SLIPOFF MORE EASILY, ESPECIALLY IF THEWOMAN IS DRY.SPERM THAT IS NOT EJACULATED ISREABSORBED BY THE BODY.IT BECOMES OWS A WOMAN TO HAVESEVERAL HUSBANDS AT THE SAME TIME.THOUGH NOT VERY COMMON, SOMESOCIETIES ALLOW THIS.A CONDOM WITH A RESERVOIR AT THETIP IS SAFER THAN ONE WITHOUT ARESERVOIR.THE RESERVOIR RETAINS THE SPERM.OTHERWISE, THE CONDOM CAN BREAKFROM THE AN BE CONTACTED BYKISSING.IN THE SECONDARY STAGE OF SYPHILIS,THERE MAY BE SORES IN THE MOUTHWHICH CONTAIN THE VIRUS.COLD SORES ARE CAUSED BY A HERPESVIRUS.THEY ARE NOT USUALLY A SEXUALLYCONTAGIOUS FORM OF HERPES. HOWEVER,THEY CAN BE.POLYANDRY ALLEVEN LONGER.IN JAPAN, MEN USED TO TAKE VERYHOT BATHS AS A FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL.THE THEORY WAS HOT WATER WOULD KILLSPERM AND REDUCE SPERM COUNT.COUPLES WITH FERTILITY PROBLEMS ARETOLD TO AVOID HOT BATHS.THIS ISN'T A FORM OF CONTRACEPTION.SYPHILIS C A LORD HAD THE PRIVILEGE OFDEFLOWERING A VIRGIN SUBJECT ON HERWEDDING NIGHT.IT WAS PREVALENT IN MEDIEVAL TIMES.THE LIFETIME OF AN AVERAGE SPERM IS24 TO 48 HOURS IN A WOMAN'S BODY.DEPENDING ON THE QUALITY OF THECERVICAL MUCUS, THE SPERM MAYSURVIVE DUCE HEALTHY SPERM.SMEGMA IS A CHEESY SUBSTANCE THATIS PRODUCED BETWEEN THE HEAD OF THEPENIS AND THE FORESKIN.THE SECRETIONS OF TYSON'S GLANDSCREATE SMEGMA, WHICH HAS BEENIMPLICATED IN CERTAIN FORMS OFCANCER.DROIT DE SEIGNEUR WAS AN OLD LAWWHEREBYEASE THAT MAYCAUSE A MAN'S SCROTUM TO BECOMEENLARGED AND TO HARDEN.IT IS USUALLY CAUSED BY THENEMATODE WORM. IT NORMALLY AFFECTSTHE LIMBS, HOWEVER.A MAN WHO CATCHES MUMPSAS AN ADULT MAY BECOME STERILE.THE DISEASE CAN AFFECT THE MAN'SABILITY TO PRODURING MARRIAGE ASWELL.IT IS POSSIBLE TO TELL A LOT ABOUTTHE WAY A PERSON IS FEELING FROMTHE PERSON'S BODY LANGUAGE.BUT THE KNOWLEDGE YOU GET FROM BODYLANGUAGE SHOULD JUST BE USED AS AGUIDE. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FORTALKING.ELEPHANTIASIS IS A DISNOT BESUCCESSFUL SIMPLY BECAUSE OF THECOUPLE'S DIFFERENT UPBRINGING.DISCUSSING ATTITUDES ABOUT MONEYBEFORE MARRIAGE IS JUST ASIMPORTANT AS DISCUSSING ATTITUDESABOUT SEX.MONEY PLAYS A BIG ROLE IN OUR LIVESAND SHOULD BE DISCUSSED BEFOREMARRIAGE AND h !""#$$%&&&''())**++,-..//0001233PCp uf0,o!,0e dPEOPLE FROM DIFFERENT ETHNIC,RELIGIOUS OR SOCIAL BACKGROUNDS CANEXPECT SOME EXTRA DIFFICULTIES IN ARELATIONSHIP.HOWEVER, THERE IS NO REASON WHY THERELATIONSHIP SHOULD      FYING MARRIAGE.FOR EXAMPLE, EITHER PARTNER CANMASTURBATE TO RELIEVE SEXUALTENSION.A CASUAL AFFAIR WITH ANOTHER MANOR WOMAN CAN SHAKE THE FOUNDATION OFEVEN THE STRONGEST RELATIONSHIP.TRUST IS A HARD COMMODITY TO REGAINONCE IT IS LOST.IF YOUR WIFE T HERBOR OINTMENT CAN -- IF WE LEARN HOWTO USE IT.VIBRATORS ARE GREAT, BUT THEYSHOULD BE USED WITH RESTRAINT.A WOMAN CAN GET HOOKED ON THEORGASMS SHE GETS FROM THE VIBRATOR.A COUPLE THAT IS OUT OF SYNC INSEXUAL DESIRE CAN STILL HAVE ASEXUALLY SATISOUT THE SIZE OF HIS PENIS, HISPARTNER SHOULD TALK TO IT AND TELLIT HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT IT.THIS IS A GOOD TECHNIQUE THAT ALLCOUPLES MAY WANT TO USE IN THEIRSEXUAL PLAY.THERE IS ONLY ONE TRUE APHRODISIAC-- THE IMAGINATION.OUR MINDS CAN CREATE WHAT NO ABOUT EVERY PART OFYOUR BODY, INCLUDING YOUR GENITALAREA, IS AN IMPORTANT COMPONENT TOFEELING GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF.NO PART OF THE BODY IS BAD OR GOOD,DIRTY OR CLEAN. ACCEPTING OURBODIES IS LIKE ACCEPTING OURSELVES.IF A MAN FEELS A LITTLE INSECUREABSPECIALLY TAKENOTE OF THIS AND COMMUNICATE WITHEACH OTHER ABOUT THEIR SEXUALNEEDS.FOR MANY PEOPLE, THE ORGASM THEYEXPERIENCE WHEN THEY MASTURBATE ISTHE STRONGEST AND MOST PLEASURABLE.AND IT MAKES SENSE; WE KNOWOURSELVES BEST, DON'T WE?FEELING GOOD OFHAVING INTERCOURSE IN A FACE-TO-FACE POSITION WITH BOTH PARTNERSSTANDING UP.BUT NOT ALL COUPLES CAN EASILY ANDCOMFORTABLY USE THIS POSITION.BECAUSE OF THE CHANGES IN THE BODYAS WE GET OLDER, OUR SEXUAL NEEDSMAY ALSO CHANGE.OLDER PEOPLE SHOULD EAN OLDER MAN MAY FIND THAT ITTAKES HIM SEVERAL DAYS TO BECOMECAPABLE OF ANOTHER EJACULATIONAFTER HIS FIRST.THE PERIOD MAY BE ONLY 10 OR 15MINUTES WITH TEENAGE BOYS AND 30MINUTES TO AN HOUR WITH YOUNG ANDMIDDLE-AGED MEN.A MAN AND A WOMAN ARE CAPABLEORARY.AGE, RESTFULNESS AND INTEREST INSEX WILL DETERMINE HOW SOON A MANWHO HAS ALREADY EJACULATED CANEJACULATE AGAIN.ADVANCING AGE, FATIGUE AND SEXUALINDIFFERENCE WILL TEND TO INCREASETHE AMOUNT OF TIME IT TAKES TOEJACULATE A SECOND OR THIRD TIME.N.A MAN CAN PREVENT PREMATUREEJACULATION BY LEARNING HOW TORECOGNIZE THE SENSATIONS THAT OCCURBEFORE EJACULATION.MEN CAN OFTEN BE TAUGHT TO IDENTIFYTHESE SENSATIONS.EXHAUSTION AND ANGER CAN CAUSE AMAN TO BE IMPOTENT.THIS IS NORMAL AND USUALLYTEMPNAND ALLOWS THEM TO RELAX MORE.IT IS ALSO A POSITION IN WHICH AMAN CAN CARESS HIS PARTNER BECAUSEHIS HANDS ARE FREE.IT IS POSSIBLE FOR A MAN TOCONTINUE INTERCOURSE AFTER HE HASEJACULATED.A MAN DOES NOT LOSE HIS ERECTIONIMMEDIATELY AFTER EJACULATIOITYCALENDARS FOR SINGLES.PRIAPISM IS A RARE BUT PAINFUL MALEPROBLEM.IT IS A PERSISTENT AND PAINFULERECTION OF THE PENIS, OFTEN CAUSEDBY A DISEASE.MEN OFTEN ENJOY THE WOMANSUPERIOR POSITION BECAUSE IT FREES THEMOF THE BURDEN OF INITIATING THE MOTIOSEMEN.SEMEN IS A FOREIGN SUBSTANCE TO AWOMAN'S BODY, AND SHE MAY BESENSITIVE TO ITS CHEMICALCOMPONENT.MEETING AVAILABLE MEN AT A SOCIALFUNCTION AT A CHURCH OR SYNAGOGUEIS OFTEN OVERLOOKED AS A WAY OFGETTING TOGETHER.MANY RELIGIONS OFFER FULL ACTIVY ONE'SNEED FOR LOVE AND AFFECTION.A WAY TO HELP CONTROL PREMATUREEJACULATION IS FOR THE WOMEN TOPRESS HER THUMB TIGHTLY AGAINST THEPENIS HEAD WHEN THE MAN IS COMING.THIS IS RECOMMENDED SOMETIMES BYTHERAPISTS.A FEMALE CAN BE ALLERGIC TO HERMATE'S A TRANSSEXUAL IS SOMEONE WHO HASUNDERGONE SURGERY TO BECOME THEOPPOSITE SEX.THE STATEMENT IS TRUE.A HANDICAPPED PERSON CAN LEARN TOOVERCOME PHYSICAL DIFFICULTIES ANDFORM A PERMANENT RELATIONSHIP.A PHYSICAL OR EVEN MENTALDIFFICULTY DOES NOT TAKE AWA  !""#$$%%&''()**+,--../001233445Pb!guߑR٩0RK^HMARRYING SOMEONE OUTSIDE YOURFAITH CAN CAUSE SPECIAL STRESSES ON AMARRIAGE.THERE ARE MANY ISSUES THAT MAY COMEUP THAT WILL TEST THE COUPLE'SPROBLEM-SOLVING ABILITIES.      E SEXUAL INTIMACY ATEMPORARY LOW PRIORITY.ACCORDING TO MASTERS AND JOHNSON A WOMAN IS CONSIDERED FRIGID IF SHEHAS SEX LESS THAN 3 TIMES A MONTH.EVERY WOMAN HAS A DIFFERENT SEXUALCLOCK THAT IS NORMAL FOR HER.THE USE OF EROTIC MATERIALSCHEAPENS SEX.ME, WOULD YOU?IF A WOMAN HASN'T HAD AN ORGASMBY THE TIME SHE'S 25, SHE NEVER WILL.THERE IS NO AGE LIMIT TO WHEN AWOMAN CAN LEARN TO ORGASM.THE LONGEST A COUPLE SHOULD GOWITHOUT SEX IS NO MORE THAN AMONTH.SOMETIMES THE COMPLEXITIES OF DAILYLIFE MAKTH HER.THERE IS NO REASON WHY SHE CAN'TENJOY VISUAL STIMULATION AS MUCH ASHER PARTNER DOES.SIMULTANEOUS ORGASMS SHOULD BETHE GOAL IN EVERY SESSION OFLOVEMAKING.YOU WOULDN'T WANT TO MAKE THE GOALOF DINNER TO BE FINISHING THE LASTBITE AT THE SAME TIEDINGS.IT IS A METHOD OF STERILIZING AWOMAN.IN A GOOD MARRIAGE THE WIFE WANTSSEX AS OFTEN AS THE HUSBAND.DIFFERENT PEOPLE HAVE DIFFERENTDRIVES NO MATTER HOW WELL THEY GETALONG.A WOMAN WHO IS AROUSED BY "DIRTYPICTURES" HAS SOMETHING DEEPLYWRONG WIHER, A PREGNANT WOMAN CANNOTHAVE ORGASMS AFTER THE SIXTH MONTH.THEY CAN AND DO, BUT SOME DOCTORSSUGGEST THAT ABOUT SIX WEEKS BEFORETHE BABY IS BORN, INTERCOURSESHOULD BE AVOIDED.A TUBAL LIGATION IS A LEGALDOCUMENT FORBIDDING SEX DURINGDIVORCE PROCE HIM IFSHE HAS ORGASMS DURING SEX WITHHIM.ALTHOUGH OFTEN LINKED, SEXUALSATISFACTION AND LOVE ARE OFTENSEPARATE.WOMEN LOSE INTEREST IN SEX AS THEYGROW OLDER.IN FACT, RESEARCH SHOWS THEOPPOSITE MAY HAPPEN.BECAUSE OF THE PRESSURE OF THE BABYINSIDE HAVEAN ORGASM IS THROUGH INTERCOURSE.THAT'S ONLY ONE WAY TO HAVE ANORGASM.THE WORD ORGY COMES FROM THEJAPANESE WORD ORIGAMI, MEANING AFOLDING INTO BEAUTIFUL SHAPES.THE WORD COMES FROM THE GREEKORGIA, MEANING A SECRET RITE.A MAN KNOWS A WOMAN LOVESO THE SIZE OF AMAN'S PENIS.NO MATTER WHAT THE LENGTH ANDDIAMETER OF THE PENIS, A COUPLE CANHAVE PLEASURABLE INTIMACY.EVERY WOMAN GETS AROUSED WHENHER BREASTS ARE CARESSED.EVERY BODY IS DIFFERENT WITHDIFFERENT REACTIONS.THE BEST WAY FOR A WOMAN TO TETHE ATMOSPHERE FOR GOOD SEX.THE FIRST TIME A MAN BRINGS AWOMAN TO ORGASM, HE CAN CONSIDERHIMSELF A GREAT LOVER.THE SEXUAL NEEDS OF WOMEN VARY.INDEED, HE MAY JUST HAVE BEEN LUCKYTHAT ONE TIME.THE QUALITY OF A WOMAN'S ORGASMIS IN DIRECT RELATION TA CHILD WILL MAKE A BADMARRIAGE BETTER AND SAVE IT FROMDIVORCE.A CHILD PUTS ADDITIONAL STRESS ON ARELATIONSHIP AND MAY MAKE THINGSWORSE.THE MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT OF AGOOD MARRIAGE IS GOOD SEX.SEX IS IMPORTANT BUT GOODCOMMUNICATION SKILLS WILL CREAWNFEELINGS.IN A NORMAL MARRIAGE, DR. RUTHWESTHEIMER ADVISES, A COUPLE SHOULDTRY TO AVERAGE AT LEAST 2.7 SEXUALENCOUNTERS PER WEEK.FIRST, SHE NEVER SAID THAT, ANDSECOND, EACH COUPLE HAS TOESTABLISH A FREQUENCY PATTERN THATIS RIGHT FOR THEM.HAVING TIME.BOTH PEOPLE SHOULD BE RESPONSIVE TOTHEIR PARTNER'S NEEDS, AND EITHERSHOULD INITIATE SEX.THE BEST WIFE IS ONE WHO IS ALWAYSAVAILABLE FOR INTERCOURSE WHENEVERHER HUSBAND WANTS IT.A GOOD WIFE IS CONSIDERATE OF HERHUSBAND'S NEEDS AND TRUE TO HER OMAN HAS HIS INDIVIDUAL LIKESAND DISLIKES.COUPLES WHO TRULY LOVE EACH OTHERNEVER FIGHT.ANGER IS A NATURAL OCCURRENCE ANDSHOULD BE EXPRESSED.WHILE BOTH PARTNERS CAN INITIATESEX, IT IS MUCH BETTER FOR ARELATIONSHIP IF THE MAN INITIATESIT MOST OF THE ESBITTEN, THE HARDER THE BETTER.WOULD YOU?THE LARGER THE WOMAN'S BREASTS,THE MORE SHE WANTS SEX.BREAST SIZE AND SEXUAL APPETITE ARENOT RELATED.IT IS A PROVEN SCIENTIFIC FACT THATAN OVERWHELMING MAJORITY OF MENPREFER WOMEN WITH LARGE BREASTS.EACH B !!""#$$%&&''(())*++,--..//012233456677P)'] vJqѴ+[ (-Π:u*%A WOMAN CAN ALWAYS TELLS WHENIT'S SAFE TO HAVE INTERCOURSE WITHOUTTHE RISK OF PREGNANCY.THAT'S WHY THERE ARE SO MANYUNPLANNED PREGNANCIES.WOMEN LOVE HAVING THEIR NIPPL          S SIGNALLED HERSEXUAL READINESS.THERE IS NO BINDING CLAUSE THATFORCES A PERSON TO DO ANYTHING HEOR SHE DOES NOT WISH TO DO.TELLING STORIES ABOUT YOUR FORMERLOVERS IS A SURE WAY TO AMUSE A NEWPARTNER.FIRST, IT IS NONE OF THE OTHERPERSON'S BUSINESS,RAL SEX MAY TURNA PERSON OFF.A WOMAN WHO TREATS A MAN TO ADATE IS SIGNALLING SHE WANTS SEX LATER.PAYING FOR DINNER AND MAKING LOVEIS NOT A CAUSE-AND-EFFECT RELATION.A MAN IS HONOR-BOUND TO SLEEP WITHA WOMAN IF HE HAS TREATED HER TO ADATE AND SHE HAND A MALE PARTNER SHOULDSTRIVE TO GIVE HIS PARTNER AS MANYAS POSSIBLE.SOME WOMEN CANNOT EXPERIENCEMULTIPLE ORGASMS NO MATTER HOW MUCHTHEY ARE STIMULATED.LIKE MEN, ALL WOMEN PREFER ORAL SEXTO INTERCOURSE.INDIVIDUALS HAVE DIFFERENTPREFERENCES, AND OD THEN GET SURPRISEDLATER.IF A WOMAN LAUGHS DURINGINTERCOURSE, IT MEANS THE PENIS ISTICKLING THE LINING OF HER VAGINA.IT IS A NATURAL RESPONSE, LIKEMOANING OR MURMURING, AND HASNOTHING TO DO WITH BEING TICKLED.ALL WOMEN CAN HAVE MULTIPLEORGASMS, AEX DOES NOT ENCOURAGESEXUAL ACTIVITY.ONCE THEY ARE MARRIED, A COUPLESHOULD DISCUSS PRIORITIES IN LIFEAND FIND OUT HOW THEY MATCH ORDIFFER.THEY SHOULD DISCUSS THIS BEFORETHEY MARRY. COURTING COUPLES OFTENFORGET TO TALK ABOUT THESE KINDS OFTHINGS ANHISRIGHTS AS AN INDIVIDUAL.A MARRIAGE IS A BALANCE OF THENEEDS OF TWO PEOPLE. A COMPROMISEIS OBVIOUSLY IN ORDER HERE.A TEENAGER WHO HAS HAD A COURSE INSEX EDUCATION IS MORE LIKELY TOEXPERIMENT IN SEXUAL ACTIVITIESTHAN ONE WHO HASN'T.KNOWLEDGE OF S FRIENDS HE ORSHE KNEW BEFORE THE COUPLE WASMARRIED.BOTH PARTNERS SHOULD MAINTAIN THEFRIENDS THEY KNEW EARLIER. IT HELPMAINTAINS INDIVIDUAL IDENTITIES.A MAN HAS THE RIGHT TO STAY OUTEVERY NIGHT WITH THE BOYS, OVER HISWIFE'S OBJECTIONS, TO MAINTAIN AINST THELAW.THE BEST MARRIAGES ARE THOSE WHERETHE HUSBAND AND WIFE ATTEND EVERYSOCIAL ACTIVITY TOGETHER.GOOD JUDGMENT AND COMMON SENSESHOULD INDICATE WHEN ACTIVITIESSHOULD BE ATTENDED JOINTLY.IT IS NORMAL FOR ONE SPOUSE OR THEOTHER TO GIVE UP THET THELAW. IF YOU ARE REALLY ANGRY, TAKEA WALK AROUND THE BLOCK TO COOLOFF.A PERSON HAS THE RIGHT TO DEMANDSEX FROM HIS OR HER SPOUSE WHENEVERIT IS DESIRED.DEMANDING SEX FROM SOMEONE WHO DOESNOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU ISCALLED RAPE, AND IT IS AGJOY HERMATE'S INTEREST IN AN ACTIVITY, BUTSHE MAY RATHER STICK WITH WATERRAFTING WHILE HE GOES MOUNTAINCLIMBING.HITTING YOUR MATE IS A LEGITIMATEWAY OF RELEASING ANGER AGAINST THEPERSON.HITTING OR ABUSING ANOTHER PERSON(EVEN IN MARRIAGE) IS AGAINS TRULY LOVES HIS WIFEWILL STOP FINDING OTHER WOMENATTRACTIVE.NOTICING OTHER WOMEN HAS LITTLE TODO WITH THE AFFECTION A MAN FEELSFOR HIS PARTNER.A GOOD WIFE WILL WANT TOPARTICIPATE IN EVERY ACTIVITY THATINTERESTS HER HUSBAND.CERTAINLY SHE SHOULD ENOMAN WHO WILL.PUNISHING A SPOUSE FOR NOT ENGAGINGIN A SPECIFIC SEXUAL ACT ISEXTREMELY DESTRUCTIVE.A MAN WHO CANNOT ORGASM DURINGFELLATIO HAS A PARTNER WHO ISPROBABLY DOING IT WRONG.SOME MEN FIND THEY CANNOT EJACULATEFROM ORAL STIMULATION.A MAN WHOG TO A SPOUSE JUST AS YOUWOULD RELATE TO ANYONE ELSE.COUPLES WHO AGREE ON EVERYTHINGHAVE THE BEST MARRIAGE.THEY ARE PROBABLY NOT AIRING THEIRDISAGREEMENTS OPENLY.A MAN WHOSE WIFE REFUSES TOPERFORM FELLATIO ON HIM IS LIKELY TO HAVEAN AFFAIR WITH A WEXAMINE WHY IT OCCURRED AND THEN TOWORK WITH THE PARTNER ON THEDIFFICULTIES IN THEIR MARRIAGE.COMPLETE HONESTY IS THE HALLMARKOF A GOOD MARRIAGE.COMPLETE HONESTY IS OFTEN USED ASAN EXCUSE TO BE CRUEL. GOODJUDGMENT AND TACT SHOULD BE USED INRELATIN  !""##$%&''()*++,--.//11233455677889:;;;P^3bqJ řv#֛|I H0qG'F>A PERSON WHO HAS HAD ANEXTRAMARITAL AFFAIR SHOULD BECOMPLETELY HONEST ABOUT IT WITH HISOR HER PARTNER.DEPENDING ON THE NATURE OF THEAFFAIR, THE FIRST THING TO DO IS TO          NY AFFAIRS HEHAS EVER HAD.FIRST, HE SHOULD DETERMINE WHY HEWANTS TO TELL HER. HONESTY CAN BEUSED AS A WEAPON.A WOMAN WHO KNOWS HER BESTFRIEND'S HUSBAND IS HAVING AN AFFAIRSHOULD FEEL FREE TO TELL HER FRIENDABOUT IT.THE FRIEND WILL NEVER BE GRATEFUIS.EVEN IF A WOMAN SUGGESTS THAT HERPARTNER TIE HER UP AND TEASE HERSEXUALLY, THE MAN SHOULDN'T ASIT IS LEGALLY A FORM OF RAPE.IT IS NOT ILLEGAL. IF NO ONE ISHURT AND IT'S DONE IN FUN - WHYNOT?A MAN WHO LOVES HIS WIFE WILL TELLHER HONESTLY ABOUT AINS FOR WOMEN.IT IS ONE THAT INCREASES THEDISCHARGE OF URINE.THE KAMA SUTRA IS AN INDIAN LOVETEXT THAT DESCRIBES FOUR SAFEMETHODS FOR INCREASING THE SIZE OFTHE PENIS.IT IS A LOVE TEXT, BUT IT CONTAINSNO SAFE METHODS FOR INCREASING THESIZE OF A PENHE WORD "GYNECOLOGY" COMES FROMTHE GREEK AND MEANS "STUDY OFBIRTH."IT MEANS "STUDY OF WOMAN," FROM THEGREEK ROOT FOR "WOMAN."A WOMAN WHO DOES NUDE MODELING ISTERMED A NYMPHOMANIAC.SHE IS CALLED A MODEL.A DIURETIC DRUG IS ONE THATDECREASES LABOR PAORTION TO THE LENGTHOF HER RING FINGER.THERE IS NO CORRELATION BETWEEN THETWO.THE SEX HORMONES OF WOMEN ANDMEN ARE PRODUCED IN THE THYROID GLAND.THE THYROID GLAND PRODUCES AHORMONE THAT REGULATES METABOLISM.IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEXHORMONES.T VIRULENT FORM DID BREAKOUT IN THE 15TH CENTURY IN EUROPE.STUDIES HAVE SHOWN THAT EACHORGASM, WHETHER MALE OR FEMALE,REDUCES LIFE EXPECTANCY BY 2MINUTES.ORGASMS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITHLIFE EXPECTANCY.THE LENGTH OF A WOMAN'S VAGINA ISIN DIRECT PROPY CANALSO DOUBLE AS AN EFFECTIVE BIRTHCONTROL METHOD.THE SPRAY CANNOT PREVENTPREGNANCIES.CHRISTOPHER COLUMBUS INTRODUCEDSYPHILIS TO EUROPE AFTER HISVOYAGES TO THE NEW WORLD.THIS IS A COMMON MYTH, BUT SYPHILISHAS PROBABLY BEEN AROUND MUCHLONGER. AMAN WAS PREGNANT ORNOT.A CLITERECTOMY IS AN OPERATION TOENLARGE A WOMAN'S CLITORIS.IT IS THE BARBAROUS PRACTICE BYMANY SOCIETIES OF REMOVING THEWOMAN'S CLITORIS TO LOWER HERSEXUAL DESIRE AND FOR OTHERSUPERSTITIOUS REASONS.A FEMININE DEODORANT SPRA AWOMAN WHO SUSPECTS SHE IS PREGNANTSHOULD SEE A PHYSICIAN.AT ONE TIME, RABBITS WERE USED TOTEST FOR PREGNANCY, AND IF THERABBIT DIED, IT MEANT THE WOMAN WASPREGNANT.THE RABBIT HAD TO BE KILLED IN ANYEVENT FOR THE TEST TO BE CHECKED,WHETHER THE WO WITH IRREGULAR PERIODSDO NOT NEED TO USE CONTRACEPTION.THEY HAVE TO BE ESPECIALLY CAREFULSINCE THEY MAY OVULATE AT ANY TIME,AND THEY MAY NOT BE AWARE WHENTHEIR PERIOD IS LATE.HOME TESTS FOR PREGNANCY ARE 100%EFFECTIVE.THEY SHOULD NOT BE RELIED ON..IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR A PERSON TOHAVE THE EXTERNAL SEX ORGANS OF THEMALE AND FEMALE AT THE SAME TIME.SUCH PEOPLE ARE CALLED HERMAPHRODITES.A TISSUE COATED WITH PETROLEUMJELLY IS A SAFE SUBSTITUTE FOR ACONDOM.THE TISSUE WILL PROBABLY DISSOLVE.WOMENSTANTLYIN THE MILLIONS.NATURAL APHRODISIACS, SUCH ASOYSTERS AND ASPARAGUS, CAN INCREASEA PERSON'S SEXUAL DESIRE.THERE ARE NO KNOWN EFFECTIVEAPHRODISIACS.A FEMALE WHO UNDERGOES A SEXCHANGE OPERATION CAN BEGET CHILDREN.SHE IS UNABLE TO PRODUCE SPERMITE, WAXY SUBSTANCE INITS HEAD.PARTHOGENESIS OCCURS WHEN ASPERM PENETRATES AN EGG TO FERTILIZE IT.IT IS ASEXUAL REPRODUCTION (ONLYONE SEX).A WOMAN HAS AS MANY EGGS IN HERAS A MAN HAS SPERM.A WOMAN HAS A LIMITED NUMBER OFEGGS. SPERM IS PRODUCED CONUCT.THE G-SPOT IS ANOTHER NAME FOR THECLITORIS.THOUGH THEY ARE PART OF THE FEMALEANATOMY, THEY ARE TWO DIFFERENTPARTS OF THE REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM.THE SPERM WHALE RECEIVES ITS NAMEBECAUSE OF ITS WHITE COLOR.THE WHALE IS DARK. IT IS NAMEDAFTER THE WH  !!""###$$%&''())**++,--.//0112334556789P:Z8N~<nLd KGTHE UTERUS AND THE VAGINA ARECONNECTED BY A TUBE CALLED THE VASDEFERENS.THEY ARE NOT CONNECTED, AND THE VASDEFERENS IS IN MEN AND CARRIES THESPERM TO THE EJACULATORY D       E LITTLE TO DOWITH THE OTHER. SHE MAY HAVE BEENCRAVING A MONOGOMOUS, LOVINGRELATIONSHIP DURING HER OTHERAFFAIRS.STUDIES SHOW THAT COUPLES WHO LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE AFTER THEWEDDING HAVE BETTER MARRIAGES THANTHOSE WHO TALK TOO MUCH BEFORE ITAN IS ENJOYINGHERSELF.SOME WOMEN MAY BE TOO SHY TO TELLTHEIR PARTNERS THEY ARE HURTING.LOOK FOR OBVIOUS SIGNS THAT SHEMAY BE UNCOMFORTABLE.A WOMAN WHO HAS MANY SEXUALPARTNERS WHILE SINGLE WILL NEVERSETTLE DOWN EVEN IF SHE MARRIES.ONE THING MAY HAVTWO WRONGS DO NOT MAKE THINGS RIGHT.A WIFE CAN TELL FROM THE WAY HERHUSBAND MAKES LOVE TO HER IF HE HASRECENTLY BEEN WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.THERE IS NO SURE WAY TO KNOW THAT.UNLESS SHE ACTUALLY COMPLAINSABOUT PAIN DURING SEX, A MAN SHOULDASSUME THE WOMHERHUSBAND TO FOOL AROUND IF HE ISGONE ON BUSINESS TRIPS FOR LONGPERIODS OF TIME.BEING AWAY FROM HOME IS NO EXCUSEFOR ADULTERY.IF ONE PARTNER IN A MARRIAGE HASHAD AN AFFAIR, THE OTHER PARTNERSHOULD BE ALLOWED TO HAVE ONE TOOWITHOUT FEELING GUILTY.NGTO DO WITH MULTIPLE BIRTHS.A WOMAN WHO SAYS SHE ISN'TINTERESTED IN MARRIAGE IS TRYINGTO GET THE MAN INTO A RELATIONSHIPTHAT WILL LEAD TO MARRIAGE.MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE, ANDSOME WOMEN ARE TRULY NOT INTERESTED.A REALISTIC WIFE SHOULD EXPECT L CONFLICTS OVER SEXTHROUGH BEHAVIOR MODIFICATIONTECHNIQUES.PSYCHOTHERAPY IS THE PERFERREDMEANS FOR DEALING WITH CONFLICTSABOUT SEX.THE CONCEPTION OF TWINS ANDTRIPLETS IS PRECEDED BY THE WOMANHAVING MULTIPLE ORGASMS.THE NUMBER OF ORGASMS HAS NOTHIORT.IT IS PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE FOR AMAN TO PENETRATE A WOMAN'S VAGINAWHILE BOTH ARE STANDING IN A FACE-TO-FACE POSITION.IT IS POSSIBLE FOR SOME, BUT NOT ALLCOUPLES, TO ENJOY INTERCOURSE INTHIS POSITION.A WOMAN CAN LEARN TO RESOLVE HERPSYCHOLOGICAEST SIZE INTHE PHASE OF SEXUAL EXCITEMENT THATPRECEDES HER ORGASM.A WOMAN'S BREASTS AND AREOLAEENLARGE DURING THIS PHASE.UNLIKE MEN, WOMEN DO NOT NEED THESEXUAL RELEASE OF AN ORGASM.IN FACT, WOMEN WHO NEVER EXPERIENCESEXUAL RELEASE MAY FEEL DISCOMFG PHENOMENON" REFERSTO THE PERSPIRATION THAT INEVITABLYACCOMPANIES VIGOROUS SEXUALACTIVITY.IT REFERS TO THE DROPS OF FLUIDTHAT APPEAR ON THE WALLS OF THEVAGINA WHEN A WOMAN BECOMESSEXUALLY AROUSED.A WOMAN'S BREASTS AND AREOLAESHRINK TO THEIR SMALLEATED INTERCOURSE.RESEARCH BY THE KINSEY GROUP 1953 AND MASTERS AND JOHNSON (1966)REVEALED A VAST DIFFERENCE BETWEENHOW MEN AND WOMEN FEEL AN ORGASM.THE STUDIES HAVE EMPHASIZED THESIMILARITIES IN HOW MEN AND WOMENFEEL DURING AN ORGASM.THE "SWEATIN  !!"#$$%&&'(()*+,--../01223455678899::;